I feel sad for the ones getting stressed over this. As long as you participate it dose not matter when you send out debates even if it is just 1 a day. We are all in this together to help each other.
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I don't know about the others who are getting stressed out & feeling as though they have to keep up a certain pace with sending out debates to everyone, but speaking for myself personally I have a pretty awful (& only partially managed) anxiety disorder. That in itself makes it incredibly easy for me to get stressed out even over small things that most people wouldn't feel pressured by at all.
Those of you who have been commenting that it's more important to keep this fun, & that taking it at our own pace is alright just so long as we continue to participate has reassured me a bit. And, like I said, whether I'm part of the group or not I still plan to send debates to all of you whenever I'm able to, regardless of if you return the favor.
I'm happy to help out others when I can, but I don't like feeling pressured to do so when I simply can't every day. It makes me feel like I'm letting people down & that makes me feel disappointed in & upset with myself.
Like I said, I've been somewhat reassured that (for the most part) it seems that everyone here is alright with me taking it at my own pace. I'm just sensitive about this kind of stuff, & easily stressed out. It's not really anyone's fault, no one's making me feel like this except myself. I'm just...kinda a basket case lmao. ^^;
Those of you who have been commenting that it's more important to keep this fun, & that taking it at our own pace is alright just so long as we continue to participate has reassured me a bit. And, like I said, whether I'm part of the group or not I still plan to send debates to all of you whenever I'm able to, regardless of if you return the favor.
I'm happy to help out others when I can, but I don't like feeling pressured to do so when I simply can't every day. It makes me feel like I'm letting people down & that makes me feel disappointed in & upset with myself.
Like I said, I've been somewhat reassured that (for the most part) it seems that everyone here is alright with me taking it at my own pace. I'm just sensitive about this kind of stuff, & easily stressed out. It's not really anyone's fault, no one's making me feel like this except myself. I'm just...kinda a basket case lmao. ^^;
ChumDumpster wrote:
I havent been so involved w this thread per say however i do try to send debates and fights when i remember. I understand how you feel Chum, due to my mental health i cant even put myself in a place where i can be reliable so i get stressed out and anxious about this type of stuff as well
I don't know about the others who are getting stressed out & feeling as though they have to keep up a certain pace with sending out debates to everyone, but speaking for myself personally I have a pretty awful (& only partially managed) anxiety disorder. That in itself makes it incredibly easy for me to get stressed out even over small things that most people wouldn't feel pressured by at all.I'm w ya Chum. I feel like we shouldnt have to "report" to the circle, im appreciative of those who send me debates n such, but i cant stay on top of it. We're all adults here with real lives outside of bimboland. We all have our own problems too
Those of you who have been commenting that it's more important to keep this fun, & that taking it at our own pace is alright just so long as we continue to participate has reassured me a bit. And, like I said, whether I'm part of the group or not I still plan to send debates to all of you whenever I'm able to, regardless of if you return the favor.
I'm happy to help out others when I can, but I don't like feeling pressured to do so when I simply can't every day. It makes me feel like I'm letting people down & that makes me feel disappointed in & upset with myself.
Like I said, I've been somewhat reassured that (for the most part) it seems that everyone here is alright with me taking it at my own pace. I'm just sensitive about this kind of stuff, & easily stressed out. It's not really anyone's fault, no one's making me feel like this except myself. I'm just...kinda a basket case lmao. ^^;
I havent been so involved w this thread per say however i do try to send debates and fights when i remember. I understand how you feel Chum, due to my mental health i cant even put myself in a place where i can be reliable so i get stressed out and anxious about this type of stuff as well
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i agree with @Chum_Dumpster and @hollisterjeans 100%, i couldn't have put it any better than these folks have.
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Well guys the math is pretty simple here. Citizens can vote 70 times per day. Each vote brings 2 tokens. It's only 140 tokens per day --> 14 debate challenges, in best scenery. If you decide to take some fights or speed up with daily tasks, there are very few tokens left for debates, unless you exchange your diamonds if you have them or top the budget if you don't have them.
With or without stress, you cannot make or invent more tokens out of nothing, so there is no point in getting stressed over that. Anyway, so many open debates at once make the whole process go slower. For instance, I personally don't like to have too many open debates and to wait for two days or more to finish them. Not that it really stressing me out, simply I don't enjoy that.
I think that someone misunderstood my words when I told that Unicorn debated me right back after our first cycle of debates closed. No, I didn't expected or demanded it, nor anybody said it should be the rule. The point of me saying that was to accent that Unicorn is active and diligent because someone else asked about Unicorn's activity.
Regarding keeping notes of challenges given and received and 'reporting', well some people like to keep it very clear and systematic and you can't blame them for that. They do like that, the same way some of you don't. At this point I feel need to explain myself, because at the beginning I was keeping my update public whom I debated. Well, nobody told me not to do that at the first place so how could I know that it's not appropriate(?). On the other hand, I didn't 'report' it with intention other than to keep my challenges just, because the group was growing and new players were added every day. In order to avoid debating the same people and frequently forgetting others I used to keep my update. When I noticed that this practice is unpopular, I decided to quit it. I believe that most of those people who keep their reminders do that for the pretty same reason as I did, and not as some kind of 'reporting' as some of you like calling it.
With or without stress, you cannot make or invent more tokens out of nothing, so there is no point in getting stressed over that. Anyway, so many open debates at once make the whole process go slower. For instance, I personally don't like to have too many open debates and to wait for two days or more to finish them. Not that it really stressing me out, simply I don't enjoy that.
I think that someone misunderstood my words when I told that Unicorn debated me right back after our first cycle of debates closed. No, I didn't expected or demanded it, nor anybody said it should be the rule. The point of me saying that was to accent that Unicorn is active and diligent because someone else asked about Unicorn's activity.
Regarding keeping notes of challenges given and received and 'reporting', well some people like to keep it very clear and systematic and you can't blame them for that. They do like that, the same way some of you don't. At this point I feel need to explain myself, because at the beginning I was keeping my update public whom I debated. Well, nobody told me not to do that at the first place so how could I know that it's not appropriate(?). On the other hand, I didn't 'report' it with intention other than to keep my challenges just, because the group was growing and new players were added every day. In order to avoid debating the same people and frequently forgetting others I used to keep my update. When I noticed that this practice is unpopular, I decided to quit it. I believe that most of those people who keep their reminders do that for the pretty same reason as I did, and not as some kind of 'reporting' as some of you like calling it.
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Oh you beautiful people you worry too much -.-
I am very sure, that everyone who is active here - each at his or her own pace - is a value to the group. I am therefore keeping people whom I experienced as nice debate partners in my rounds. Nobody should feel pressured. I am sure the only people who did not engage as we expected them to were those who misunderstood the thread. Other than
sheherazade all who never sent anything back to me were removed when Iulia made the big clean up.
Don't worry too much, after all it should still be a game and fun. I send lots of hugs to those who stressed out over this and even lost sleep. Hope you get better now <3
KirstyD8 wrote:
Guys don't stress go at your own pace and what works for you.
It's not a competition so don't worry so much.
Right, especially in combination what
hollisterjeans wrote.
I think I will change my system, too. I started checking the overall debates with some of you, and while at it, the results. When I am done, I can debate at first those wo battled me most. This is more suitable than blindly going down the list, and it will be more fun to go for more successful debates ;-)
If anyone gets stressed or anything just take a step back and leave it for a few days then start again. Or if you have any issues leave a comment here so we can help and understand as you can see everyone is supportive.
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