What's up bimbos! Been a week since I joined, but so far I'm LOVING it!
Anyways, I needed to vent off a bit, since I got to meet with my worst ex today. I started wondering what are the worst exes of bimbolands...
Ladies, share your experiences!
I will share mine:
So, my dad died when I was 20, and around that time I was spending a lot of time with this guy. Started compensating and stuff. I was blind as a bat, I didn't see how abusive he was. He wasn't hitting me or anything. It wasn't anything physical... It was stuff like small insults every day that started growing bigger, it came to a point where after we tried to have sex (and he couldn't do shit because of his floppy-ass dick) he said he'd send me an email detailing what I did wrong to cause his tiny-peeny to malfunction. What the actual f**k. Man.
Not to mention how we were oficially in a relationship on seven different ocassions, each time he'd break up after a couple of days.
He made me feel horrible, yet always kept me hooked, wanting for more of his presence, of his abuse... Convinced me all of my other friends were "emotional vampires", draining my energy. Not a very light-hearted story. I think what had me be so blind for so long was his talent and success, he did encourage me to pursue my dream to become a writer... It took me a while, but I honestly got over him.
I'm pretty sure he's a narcissist. Also, he always borrowed money from me. ANd he lied alot. Like, his mom ended up in a hospital. He spent all the money she left hi on drugs. He promised me he'd use the money I gave him to bring his mom something to eat... He didn't. He got high, snortedup everything I gave him, and called me at 5am later that night/day saying the dealers were after him. He lied, he wanted more of my money to spend on his drugs.
What the hell was wrong with me??? I was so messed up, it's a wonder I didn't end up a junkie back then.
I grew out of all that shit.
But he scarred me for life. I'm not sure I'll ever become intimate with anyone ever. Not that I feel the need for it, anyways.
So, today, as we were having a job interview for this festival I'm apparently working on, it turned out we got the job together. We spent an hour just the two of us, alone, first time in one year and two months after our final break up. At first, he was being all snarky 'n shit, trying to use his old tricks to entice the masochist in me. When I ignored him, he started giving me compliments. I found the whole thing hilarious. Ironic.
Idk... I definitely didn't let him get to me. Acted all profesional, bimboesque.
So, what are your worst exes, girls and boys?
Anyways, I needed to vent off a bit, since I got to meet with my worst ex today. I started wondering what are the worst exes of bimbolands...
Ladies, share your experiences!
I will share mine:
So, my dad died when I was 20, and around that time I was spending a lot of time with this guy. Started compensating and stuff. I was blind as a bat, I didn't see how abusive he was. He wasn't hitting me or anything. It wasn't anything physical... It was stuff like small insults every day that started growing bigger, it came to a point where after we tried to have sex (and he couldn't do shit because of his floppy-ass dick) he said he'd send me an email detailing what I did wrong to cause his tiny-peeny to malfunction. What the actual f**k. Man.
Not to mention how we were oficially in a relationship on seven different ocassions, each time he'd break up after a couple of days.
He made me feel horrible, yet always kept me hooked, wanting for more of his presence, of his abuse... Convinced me all of my other friends were "emotional vampires", draining my energy. Not a very light-hearted story. I think what had me be so blind for so long was his talent and success, he did encourage me to pursue my dream to become a writer... It took me a while, but I honestly got over him.
I'm pretty sure he's a narcissist. Also, he always borrowed money from me. ANd he lied alot. Like, his mom ended up in a hospital. He spent all the money she left hi on drugs. He promised me he'd use the money I gave him to bring his mom something to eat... He didn't. He got high, snortedup everything I gave him, and called me at 5am later that night/day saying the dealers were after him. He lied, he wanted more of my money to spend on his drugs.
What the hell was wrong with me??? I was so messed up, it's a wonder I didn't end up a junkie back then.
I grew out of all that shit.
But he scarred me for life. I'm not sure I'll ever become intimate with anyone ever. Not that I feel the need for it, anyways.
So, today, as we were having a job interview for this festival I'm apparently working on, it turned out we got the job together. We spent an hour just the two of us, alone, first time in one year and two months after our final break up. At first, he was being all snarky 'n shit, trying to use his old tricks to entice the masochist in me. When I ignored him, he started giving me compliments. I found the whole thing hilarious. Ironic.
Idk... I definitely didn't let him get to me. Acted all profesional, bimboesque.
So, what are your worst exes, girls and boys?
Very busy with school at the moment, so temporary hiatus D:. 
