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06.04.2022 19:27:48
Muffy Mynxxx

I'm upset actually.

Like Dye said, some of these things are just jokes or eating habits, like not eating bread since you were 6 or not eating breakfast until 5 pm. Harmless.

But saying things like "pretty hurts" when talking about being hungry, or saying "I haven't eaten in two days because I had cake on Saturday" is straight up promoting eating disorder behavior. And its happened here for a long time. This isn't a new thing, that's the issue. Nobody is being "too sensitive" about that because its something that shouldn't be fucking allowed. And I'm over it.

This forum is to talk about random things. If you're having a bad food day or struggling with your ED, you are allowed to talk about it, all of us with EDs have those moments where we need to talk to someone and you should talk to someone. BUT glamorizing the fact that you're not eating or equating beauty with starvation is actively harmful to anyone with disordered thoughts. Funny that some people pretend that they're so against violence when celebrities slap each other, but then encourage other people to starve themselves to death. Get a grip.


edit: not upset at you Deterge!

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06.04.2022 19:36:45
AuntieLice

You choosing to see people talking about their eating habits as glamourizing EDs says more about you than it does about them! And so those using the opportunity to once again praise Will Smith for being a violent misogynist and comparing his disgusting behaviour to a diet! No one is forcing you to change your eating habits or to engage in the discussion if you are as sick of it as you say, dear

06.04.2022 19:36:45
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06.04.2022 19:39:55
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Just got home from door knocking out in the community dealing with community issues in the pouring British rain and thunder (got absolutely drenched) to my brand new bed set including fluffy quilt, pillows, quilt cover and pillow covers. 

Dat lush brand new bedding feeling <33 Esp after a long day

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06.04.2022 19:40:49
ButterfIy

People talk about the food they buy constantly in here when, funnily enough, I used to have binge eating disorder when in my teens. The difference being, however, is that I’m smart enough to know that someone else’s posts about their food choices and eating habits are independent of my own decisions. If someone posting about the fact they didn’t eat a cake is too much for you, you have bigger problems. Also, me saying I haven’t eaten in a few days is not promoting anything since I’m not advising anyone to do the same.

If someone can’t talk about their eating habits on one end, then the same energy should be directed towards the opposite end.

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06.04.2022 19:42:02
Muffy Mynxxx

Didn't praise will smith in that message, but glad you're able to read.

Praising ED's on the other hand actively harms those trying to recover.
And equating "pretty hurts" to being hungry is an eating disorder. Get well soon!

addition: The point is, you both know what you're doing. You are glamorizing ED's and you know it. The rest of us aren't stupid.

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06.04.2022 19:46:30
Deterge

Muffy Mynxxx wrote:
I'm upset actually.

Like Dye said, some of these things are just jokes or eating habits, like not eating bread since you were 6 or not eating breakfast until 5 pm. Harmless.

But saying things like "pretty hurts" when talking about being hungry, or saying "I haven't eaten in two days because I had cake on Saturday" is straight up promoting eating disorder behavior. And its happened here for a long time. This isn't a new thing, that's the issue. Nobody is being "too sensitive" about that because its something that shouldn't be fucking allowed. And I'm over it.

This forum is to talk about random things. If you're having a bad food day or struggling with your ED, you are allowed to talk about it, all of us with EDs have those moments where we need to talk to someone and you should talk to someone. BUT glamorizing the fact that you're not eating or equating beauty with starvation is actively harmful to anyone with disordered thoughts. Funny that some people pretend that they're so against violence when celebrities slap each other, but then encourage other people to starve themselves to death. Get a grip.


edit: not upset at you Deterge!
thank you for clarifying :> i agree with your point muffy. have a fantastic day :>

06.04.2022 19:46:30

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06.04.2022 19:50:10
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literally cannot study in the afternoon i just end up getting distracted by everything and wasting a lot of time -_- 

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06.04.2022 19:50:15
AuntieLice

Muffy Mynxxx wrote:
Didn't praise will smith in that message, but glad you're able to read.

Praising ED's on the other hand actively harms those trying to recover.
And equating "pretty hurts" to being hungry is an eating disorder. Get well soon!

addition: The point is, you both know what you're doing. You are glamorizing ED's and you know it. The rest of us aren't stupid.
Thank you! I learned all about reading comprehension from my friend who skipped the first post of this one court trial we had and then proceeded to make 400 posts that made no sense and stood her ground even when everyone quoted the originalt post to show her she was completely wrong.

06.04.2022 19:50:15
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06.04.2022 19:51:44
ButterfIy

Muffy Mynxxx wrote:
Didn't praise will smith in that message, but glad you're able to read.

Praising ED's on the other hand actively harms those trying to recover.
And equating "pretty hurts" to being hungry is an eating disorder. Get well soon!

addition: The point is, you both know what you're doing. You are glamorizing ED's and you know it. The rest of us aren't stupid.
A bit presumptuous, but what’s new there? Nevertheless, I won’t comment on the intellect of those who seem to think that about us.

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06.04.2022 19:52:19
Muffy Mynxxx

LMAOOO okay that is funny tho

Although, I still stand my ground on what I said in the case, but I'm not interested in bringing that up again

edit: awh you called me your friend yay

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