oh goodness ! sounds exciting, hope everything works out !!! <33
lets be real here
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mbbybbby wrote: (original post HERE)
finally got a job offer and I'm super excited to start! its PRN though so now im just constantly debating on quitting my full-time job :///Best wishes to you! Do whatever calls to you and makes you happy <3
Good to be out of them awful stripes. Congrats to mbbybby on the job, nothing better than money. Work and invest in the future, that is my advice for the people starting out. I barely have to work now because of careful planning.
Xmas is coming!! I'm beginning to share my holiday cheer! :3
Xmas is coming!! I'm beginning to share my holiday cheer! :3
My fiancé and I are planig our wedding. We are looking forward to that day, we wanna have a lot of fun an good food. Is it bad that I don´t want certain peope at my wedding? 4 example my grandparents, bc they stress me out a lot? I am asking myself over and over again, If I will regret it one day, and can´t find an answer. They just proofed over and over again for the last 5 years, that every chance I give them to stay in my life just leads to me feeling awfull.
Your wedding is supposed to be the happiest day of your life. If they stress you out that bad and make you and make you feel miserable, it’s best you don’t bother with inviting them to reduce any chances of them ruining your perfect day. You’re entitled to not invite those you don’t want in your wedding.
♥ you are right, it´s going to be a hard decision anyway
Since you asked, my advice would be to avoid alienating your family. I really don’t get why some folks think that’s a good move. Anyone suggesting you cut a family member out of your life with no context as to why they stress you out does not have your best interest at heart. Not inviting them just sends the message that you don’t care about them and it is a good way to create resentment. It’s better to set boundaries instead of shutting them out completely. I believe in open conversations and being honest so they really get what you need from them. Also, make sure they understand that while they’re important to you, your well-being is a priority. Good luck with your grandparents, and I hope you have an amazing wedding! It’s such a special occasion, and you should celebrate it with everyone who matters in your life.
dang tricky situation fr. but you dont have to cut them out and give some space. i have issues like this currently too and it is so painful but forgiving constanty makes me feel like i am walking all over myself i give in too easy
Prinzessin Sisi wrote: (original post HERE)
i'd probably invite them to the ceremony, simply because they are family and it would likely weigh on your mind a lot if you didn't invite them with people asking where they are, why they werent invited, etc. taking some of the focus away from the couple. i wouldn't invite them to be part of the planning or bridal party, but if you have a rehearsal dinner you could always invite them and see how that goes. if they cant respect you during that then definitely would be an uninvite, but no invitation to begin with i feel like could cause more drama than its worth.
but thats also just me, protect your peace and talk about it with your partner and people who are close to you, they know you best and whatll go best <3
hope the rest of your planning is smooth and magical <3 !! super exciting days coming up for you
My fiancé and I are planig our wedding. We are looking forward to that day, we wanna have a lot of fun an good food. Is it bad that I don´t want certain peope at my wedding? 4 example my grandparents, bc they stress me out a lot? I am asking myself...at the end of the day, we're some internet strangers and don't know the full context, but, going off of personal experiences:
i'd probably invite them to the ceremony, simply because they are family and it would likely weigh on your mind a lot if you didn't invite them with people asking where they are, why they werent invited, etc. taking some of the focus away from the couple. i wouldn't invite them to be part of the planning or bridal party, but if you have a rehearsal dinner you could always invite them and see how that goes. if they cant respect you during that then definitely would be an uninvite, but no invitation to begin with i feel like could cause more drama than its worth.
but thats also just me, protect your peace and talk about it with your partner and people who are close to you, they know you best and whatll go best <3
hope the rest of your planning is smooth and magical <3 !! super exciting days coming up for you
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₍^. .^₎⟆ ask me about the perks of being a senator ! (there's a ton ~)
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I actually really enjoy my bimbos look when she has no skin lolol -___-||| does anyone else agree?
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