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09.04.2021 22:55:28
PlushKlavier

You are absolutely making the right decision to get an abortion if the pregnancy proves to be dangerous not only for your physical health but also mental health and financial stability, and even if none of that was in any danger you still have every right to get an abortion for any reason whatsoever because it's still your body and you get to decide what to do with it and what you're willing to make a lifelong commitment to

You're saving yourself a lot of pain and grief, not only physically because it's never a good idea to carry out a pregnancy that could endanger you, but also because raising a child you were not financially prepared for can be extremely stressful, especially if you're already struggling with getting money, and you're saving yourself from the possibility of mentally spiraling down and the possibility of not being able to afford the proper care the child needs

No one in your family has to know about you getting an abortion if you don't want them to know, and you don't have to feel guilty or bad about it, they're not entitled to knowing that information, but if you do wish to tell them make sure to pick the right time to do so where you feel like you can handle the potential backlash you might get

I wish you all the luck and I sincerely hope the procedure goes well for you, hang in there and stay strong, it's normal to feel grief over having to get an abortion since it is quite a mentally taxing procedure both before and after it happens, but all these bad feelings will pass eventually <3


09.04.2021 22:55:28

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09.04.2021 23:52:54
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you do whatever is best for you and your situation randybobandy <3 much love to you

09.04.2021 23:52:54
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10.04.2021 01:32:15
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Here for the forum stats 

10.04.2021 01:32:15
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10.04.2021 02:08:16
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RandyboBandy wrote:

I don’t know guys I just could really use some support right now, just someone to say I’m not making a selfish decision and that it’s okay.

I know it's late, but I hope you see this. 
You are not being selfish. As you said, it's dangerous to have the fetus in the fallopian tube. It can be literally life-threatening. 

Even if it's not in your fallopian tube, I wouldn't call you selfish.  It's fine to not think now is a good time to have a child. Not just for you but for your child. Like, if you wait to have children when you're work is more stable or you're more financially secure, it could be better for your child(ren).

As for your family, I don't want to give advice so much as sympathize.
I do have a  Roman Catholic family, iincluding a very judgmental mother & an uncle who is a Roman Catholic priest. If I were pregnant, I probably wouldn't tell them because my mum would say horrible things to me. As much as I hate her being judgmental,  I can also see how it might feel bad hiding this information. It sucks not to feel supported by family. I hope that your partner is more supportive of your decisions (all life decisions not just pregnancy).

10.04.2021 02:08:16
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10.04.2021 03:29:29
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prince phillip fucking died lol

10.04.2021 03:29:29
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10.04.2021 05:19:04
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I REALLY want soup from Olive Garden but they’re closed :/ I feel sick and it always makes me feel better

10.04.2021 05:19:04

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10.04.2021 05:23:48
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Juggalo Rights wrote:
prince phillip fucking died lol
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10.04.2021 05:23:48
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10.04.2021 09:03:01
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finally took a piss

10.04.2021 09:03:01

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10.04.2021 13:18:38
DakotaJ

Debate me! After my curious badge xx

10.04.2021 13:18:38
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10.04.2021 14:21:02
RandyboBandy

Thank you guys so much for the kind words ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ It really means a lot to me right now and I needed a reminder that my pro choice beliefs apply to me too ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Maybe that sounds silly but this has really been a stressful and confusing time for me, and I’ve been very hormonal (and nauseous). Thank you thank you! I feel a lot better and more fortified in my decision !

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