relationship shit

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21.11.2025
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Rott
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Reasonopia
21.11.2025 23:04:02
Rott

Soo... How did you meet someone special? I swear I've been single for my entire adulthood and I feel SO unloveable. Any tips?

21.11.2025 23:04:02

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Agnostica
22.11.2025 00:37:04
tibby

how i’ve met my previous partners and how i bagged them
- in class, 2 year crush and leaving them a confession note asking check yes or no
- listening to their conversations about AI in the library (right as it was coming out), asking if they want to see the sonic movie and expressing interest in their favorite anime and games
- through a college group chat, sending memes, becoming friends, and developing feelings over 6 months
- through a meme discord, late night calls and gaming sessions
- through frat cookout, went to del taco and showing them my favorite late night nature spots 
- through the gym, asking them to spot me and developing a workout schedule
- through hinge !! (no shame in dating apps !!) went on an all day date, helps get over the initial jitters and truly get to know each other

22.11.2025 00:37:04
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Atheista
22.11.2025 10:24:42
Mermaidmare

What Tibby said about dating apps - absolutely no shame! My wife and I met on Bumble and it was the fucking best choice and date of my life. We met at my fave bubble tea cafe in the morning and the date finished uhhhhh two days later. 
 
I met my now ex gf at a drink stand I frequented after boxing classes, another ex partner at a life drawing class, and a couple others just in school (high school and uni). 
The main thing (in my opinion) is to just talk to people, make connections. In real life, on apps, etc. let people know when you like their outfit, their company, anything. Not everything has to be deep in the beginning, you can build a real relationship starting with small talk. 

It’s easy to feel unlovable in a world that is hyper focused on success and being in a relationship being seen as success. There’s nothing wrong with being single, and it absolutely doesn’t make you unloveable. 
There are people out there who will be a fantastic fit for you - it can be frustrating looking for them, but worth the work. 

22.11.2025 10:24:42
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Atheista
30.11.2025 14:44:43
teetheater

love me a good dating app

30.11.2025 14:44:43
Valerie <3
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Freethinkerland
01.12.2025 22:17:17
cannibunny

My advice to finding a keeper is to give up on finding one. Once you give up on the chase, love will find you. Just be your wonderful self.

I have my fair share of dating app horror stories. Although I'm very lucky that I met my boyfriend of over a year now by pure chance. We met while working, we struck up a conversation and he asked for my number by asking for an art commission, since I'm an artist on the side. A year later I made the commission a reality.

01.12.2025 22:17:17
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(^w^)            .⋆♡✿cannibunny✿♡⋆. 
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Atheista
02.12.2025 16:55:14
teetheater

Girl shut up

02.12.2025 16:55:14
Valerie <3
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Freethinkerland
02.12.2025 17:32:52
SilentlyScreaming

sssshhhh :)
I Love A Sappy Ending ♡☆

02.12.2025 17:32:52
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