I had vouchers for free item's, so I gave them to my girlfriend to use, because she wanted to go shopping at the mall !!!
She invited me to go with her, and I accepted.
I didn't want anything for myself because I am extremely particular about Where I shop, but wanted to see what her taste in clothing was all about, from her perspective........ Haha PERFECT MATCH with my style's of elegantly Gothic. Dark red's and black and Lace and corset's. Or white knit's. Over all, I totally approve of her style's.
I do not approve of her buying me clothing.
My cleaning lady and friend, insisted that she buy something for me. I tried to make her stop, and just picked out a cute pantie for $1.99. She wouldn't let me off that easy. Dresses. OMG she wanted to buy me a gorgeous dress, I would happily wear, but OMG there was no way I was going to let my girlfriend buy me anything that cost's more than she make's in weeks, working at cleaning my office.
What the hell is up with this ? I managed to keep her from spending any more on me than $30.00 USD 7 item's.
All of it, intimate apparel she want's to photograph me in. Some of it she bought the match to wear, as well.
OK that is sexy enough for me to accept her gift's with this reasoning and excuse this time, but I'm totally not comfortable with her spending money buying me clothes in the future. That's when I begin to feel like a prostitute.
If a man had tried to do that with me today, I would have destroyed his bank account and would never see him again.
This tactic, I can't use on a woman I'm beginning to fall in love with. She is really that perfect for me, but telling her to stop buying me clothing ,is going to be something for us to talk about later.
I've never had this sort of relationship problem before, Thank God.
I wanted to make this poll because, I wonder how other women would deal with this sort of a situation.
You don't necessarily have to be falling in love with your girlfriend for this to occur.
I've just never had a woman ever buy me clothes before, except my mother.
What do you think?
Should I let her buy me gift's, in excess of 50.00 USD, while I'm sexually performing for her, by personal choice?
It just feels all wrong for me, to accept gift's like that in this situation.
Just letting her into my world and privately sharing what I love to do, is no reason to spend money on me.
A meal, is OK.
Several Hundreds of USD? Feels like dirty money when I get naked for the 'giver's', camera too.
[ I recieve a self- satisfaction for her hobbies and talent. She is trying something new for her, and I want to support my friend in it, as her model. I really enjoy not having any expectation's placed upon me, by her.
I obviously have conflicted emotions about her camera. Even if I do like the end result. I like watching my own performances too, and she make's it 'safe' to do. So,
1: "I am rewarded enough by you."
2: "No I wont let you buy that for me."
3: "Thank you very much sweetheart for your desire but I can't let you " ....
4: " It doesn't feel comfortable "
Just practicing what I need to say to her. Haha I used every single one on her today, with very little success.
She invited me to go with her, and I accepted.
I didn't want anything for myself because I am extremely particular about Where I shop, but wanted to see what her taste in clothing was all about, from her perspective........ Haha PERFECT MATCH with my style's of elegantly Gothic. Dark red's and black and Lace and corset's. Or white knit's. Over all, I totally approve of her style's.
I do not approve of her buying me clothing.
My cleaning lady and friend, insisted that she buy something for me. I tried to make her stop, and just picked out a cute pantie for $1.99. She wouldn't let me off that easy. Dresses. OMG she wanted to buy me a gorgeous dress, I would happily wear, but OMG there was no way I was going to let my girlfriend buy me anything that cost's more than she make's in weeks, working at cleaning my office.
What the hell is up with this ? I managed to keep her from spending any more on me than $30.00 USD 7 item's.
All of it, intimate apparel she want's to photograph me in. Some of it she bought the match to wear, as well.
OK that is sexy enough for me to accept her gift's with this reasoning and excuse this time, but I'm totally not comfortable with her spending money buying me clothes in the future. That's when I begin to feel like a prostitute.
If a man had tried to do that with me today, I would have destroyed his bank account and would never see him again.
This tactic, I can't use on a woman I'm beginning to fall in love with. She is really that perfect for me, but telling her to stop buying me clothing ,is going to be something for us to talk about later.
I've never had this sort of relationship problem before, Thank God.
I wanted to make this poll because, I wonder how other women would deal with this sort of a situation.
You don't necessarily have to be falling in love with your girlfriend for this to occur.
I've just never had a woman ever buy me clothes before, except my mother.
What do you think?
Should I let her buy me gift's, in excess of 50.00 USD, while I'm sexually performing for her, by personal choice?
It just feels all wrong for me, to accept gift's like that in this situation.
Just letting her into my world and privately sharing what I love to do, is no reason to spend money on me.
A meal, is OK.
Several Hundreds of USD? Feels like dirty money when I get naked for the 'giver's', camera too.
[ I recieve a self- satisfaction for her hobbies and talent. She is trying something new for her, and I want to support my friend in it, as her model. I really enjoy not having any expectation's placed upon me, by her.
I obviously have conflicted emotions about her camera. Even if I do like the end result. I like watching my own performances too, and she make's it 'safe' to do. So,
1: "I am rewarded enough by you."
2: "No I wont let you buy that for me."
3: "Thank you very much sweetheart for your desire but I can't let you " ....
4: " It doesn't feel comfortable "
Just practicing what I need to say to her. Haha I used every single one on her today, with very little success.
