Should the count count?

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Emizo

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Emizo

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10.08.2018 22:04:33
Emizo

So my girl friends will say as long as your body count (the number of people that have entered you) is less than 10 its OK
Then guys (of my age, 18-23) will sort of look at you as a hoe if your body count is more than 5.
If your body count is less than 3 your seen as an angel in a man's eyes, its like it's more attractive ?

There was once this meme that said, 'Imagine wearing a pair of shoes that had already previously been worn by 10 other guys, would you want to wear those shoes'.
Some will respond, 'Shoes are shoes' in other words Pussy is Pussy.
Other guys would say 'hell no!'

My count is on 5 and i'm 19, not in a relationship. I wanted it to be 5 only but that's not gonna happen now.

obviously due to sexism, a mans count could be 72 and of course they wouldn't get judged for it.
So for a girl, should the body count count?

Personally I think its a stupid thing for guys to be concerned about. But I don't know from a guys perspective.

10.08.2018 22:04:33

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JadeElisabeth

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11.08.2018 15:03:21
JadeElisabeth

The only response to this really is that it’s nobody’s business but yours. Why should a guy know how many people you have slept with? You don’t have to tell anybody, you don’t have to justify to anybody and it only matters if it matters to you. Other people’s judgements are irrelevant.
And a guy’s perspective on anything to do with a woman’s body is certainly irrelevant! They have no right to an opinion.

11.08.2018 15:03:21

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Sandi Lut

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11.08.2018 15:08:11
Sandi Lut

I had a male friend who boasted about sleeping with 3 different girls in one weekend. My only response was: slut. He looked at me as I was from mars, so I asked him: What if a girl says she slept with 3 different guys in one weekend, you would call her a slut right? He admitted that this was true and that it isn't fair.

Personally I think it's nobody's business but your own how many people you have sex with no matter your sexe. If it's just 1 or 147, I don't care. As long as YOU feel ok with it, that is all that matters.

11.08.2018 15:08:11

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Esuna

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11.08.2018 19:25:32
Esuna

I think the majority of sane guys don't care or just don't want to know. The only reason a man would be obsessed with a girl's count is because he is an insecure person. But I do think everyone has a limit in which they feel comfortable around, as a woman would I feel comfortable sleeping with a man who has slept with 20+ other women? I'd probably feel really inadequate, and like sex doesn't mean anything to him. That's my personal take, we all have a comfort level both men and women.

Also despite we don't live on instincts and we have the ability to make rational thought it doesn't dismiss the possible natural differences between men and women. Think about it in nature male species wants to spread its seed as MUCH as possible to increase the amount of offspring/chances of survival, female species usually, therefore, have their pick of males - and want a mate that can provide for offspring, has good genes etc. Ofc as I said this is relating to animals other than humans who do not have deep thought/rationalizing - but some things just don't simply change. So a male animal would not want to provide for offspring that isn't his own (a possible scenario that a female species would present if it's sex count with multiple partners is high).

This is all ofc just a theory as to why males are more likely to huff and puff over a female's sexuality. I personally believe that if you aren't hurting anyone, you are being safe and preventing unwanted pregnancy then you are free to do whatever you want. I am kind of saddened at times that the world has become so hypersexualized especially for teenage girls and younger, and the frontal cortex (decision-making centre, moderator of social behaviour) doesn't even finish developing until mid 20s - yet we are pressuring kids to grow up so fast sometimes.

11.08.2018 19:25:32

Very busy with school at the moment, so temporary hiatus D:.

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vivi bambi

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12.08.2018 21:59:18
vivi bambi

the count does count!
most men want a woman who is unexperienced in having sex, because this way she has no or less experience in having good sex.
it's one of the famous things men really want to know: "was it good?" or "how was i?" and they just want to hear: "yes, it was the best time of my life!"
ok - and now we have to go a step back and it becomes a bit religious (and that from me, an atheist in the first place):
gods first trial was the man. adam. and he was... the first.
the second was eva. taken out of a rip of adam.
(is god so unperfect, that the second trial could be worse than the first one...?)
ok. then there was this banned from paradise story, cause adam and eve ate a fruit they shouldn't. it gave them the awareness of... whatever.
so god was alone. the untold story is: why should god stop after creating two unperfect creatures?
he started the third trial. all good things... he created another being.
and it was much more better than the two before and it don't ate from the fruits of this tree.
satisfying, very satisfying. so god created more of them. because it was very much fun with them.
but... some found the way out and they found out, that it's much more fun in having sex with adams... and eves (and not only with this dirty old bastard in paradise). they didn't care about the names given to them. they were stupid, but successful in having fun. they learned, step by step.
they learned, that it isn't clever to tell the truth. they learned to giggle instead and nowadays they're called bimbos.

ok, emizo. you want to be a bimbo.
if you have not to much eve dna in you, you will be able to tell every man, that he's the first. and that he is the best.
and if he knows, that he isn't first, you will be able to tell him a lie, why he is - from your point of view, because the one before him was a... bastard.
you just have to accentuate that he is the best.
he will believe you. because - don't forget - men were the first trial and they're believers. the bigger your boobs, the more they want to believe in you.
and if you're a clever bimbo, you will know, if the deal is good, where ever you put your priorities: sex, money, society, kids, adventures, nature, sports, power, ...whatever.
if you don't compare, you will never know, if you'll make a good deal.
and don't tell me, that you trust the first one, who's telling you, that he's the one.

12.08.2018 21:59:18

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