Let’s Talk Boundaries, Xeets, and Respect

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17.05.2025 03:28:08
Blecky89

Let’s Talk Boundaries, Xeets, and Respect

An Official Message from the Minister of Justice

Dear citizens,

I'd like to take a moment to address a few recent issues and clarify how we, the moderation team, will be approaching certain behaviors moving forward. As always, our goal is to maintain a respectful, inclusive, and fair environment for everyone.


⭐ Individual Account Accountability

To begin, I want to reiterate that we treat each account individually, whether or not it is known to be an alternate (alt) account. Each account is held to the same standard, and no one is exempt from the rules.

Going forward, moderation action will be taken based on reports of rule-breaking in xeets. We encourage you to use the report system rather than engage directly.


⭐ On Vague Xeeting & Rule Circumvention

We’ve noticed a growing trend where some users attempt to bypass community rules through what’s being referred to as "vague xeeting”—posting comments that clearly allude to or target others without naming them directly.

Let me assure you: the moderation team is neither blind nor oblivious. Even if a name isn’t dropped, the context often makes it very clear who is being targeted. These indirect jabs still count as violations if they fall under our Forum Etiquette Guidelines.

As a reminder, here’s what is not allowed:

What’s Not Allowed:

Insults, personal attacks, or threats towards others

Provocation or inflammatory behavior designed to upset others

Disrespectful or hurtful comments targeting individuals or groups

All xeets are subject to the same standards. Attempting to skirt the rules through technicalities or “clever wording” will not be tolerated.


⭐ On Blocking and Boundaries

Another important topic: blocking and boundary respect.

Please respect the boundaries others have set by blocking you, and just as importantly, respect your own decision when you block someone.

Let me be absolutely clear:
Boundaries only hold weight when both parties honor them.

If someone you’ve blocked continues to interact with your posts, report them using the “Report a Ximbo” button on their profile.
Do not engage with them directly—doing so would also count as violating the blocking boundaries.

The only exception is a single, neutral reply such as:

“I have you blocked. Please do not interact with my posts further.”

This is a clear, respectful statement that reinforces your boundary.
Keep in mind, not all users are notified when they’re blocked due to their own settings.


Let’s work together to ensure the community remains fair, respectful, and safe for all.

Obey the laws. Respect one another. And keep your xeets clean.

With respect,
Blecky ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚



17.05.2025 03:28:08
    
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17.05.2025 03:30:53
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Love U Blecky <3

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17.05.2025 03:31:11
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17.05.2025 04:04:22
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17.05.2025 06:46:46
Gemima1984

I know this is out of your control but do you know if there's any plans to implement the ability to delete posts on the x-feed? I appreciate the new established rules but it must be hard to moderate content if things can't be removed.

Content warning narratives about horrific things, but earlier this year mumsnet got targeted as a website by people posting illegal and traumatic content in their forums. It's an extreme example but when I see the outlined rules which directly address illegal content, I do wonder what an earth site admin will do if a troll uploads harmful content? There's nothing stopping individuals sharing illegal content on this feed and whilst the likelihood of this is low, we did just have a massive targeted hacking so there's plenty of people acting in bad faith still around?

This is of course more of a response to site admins rather than yourself blecky but it would be good to have the concerns escalated. I note we have had no feedback on what bugs will be fixed following the implementation of the new layout so I am not hopeful.

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22.05.2025 20:22:47
Blecky89

Hi @Gemima1984 – sorry for the late reply! I was hoping to hear back on the improvements I’d suggested around xeets before responding, so I could offer something more concrete than just a vague “I’ll do my best.” Unfortunately, I’m still waiting on a response myself.

That said, one of the key changes I’ve put forward for discussion is exactly what you mentioned – the ability to delete xeets. I completely agree with you: in situations where harmful or triggering content is posted, there absolutely needs to be a way for someone (whether mods or admins) to step in and remove it quickly.

You’re right to raise these concerns, especially given what happened earlier this year. Even if the risk is relatively low, it’s still something we need to take seriously. I’ll keep pushing for improvements to moderation tools and overall site safety.

I’ll update you as soon as I hear anything back. Thanks again for speaking up – it’s really valuable to have these concerns raised and discussed openly.



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22.05.2025 21:14:32
KatieBoutique

Becky you and the FP ACABs are doing a very good job.  I can live within your rules and your warning protocols and fair and measured.  There are things I can learn from you and your crew and I mean to do that as best I can.  We all use the tools we have at our disposal and it is interesting to see how a well organized team such as yours keeps the peace.  Love Katie.

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22.05.2025 21:33:08
Blecky89

Thanks so much, Katie — really appreciate the kind words. It genuinely means a lot, and I’m glad our approach resonates with you. I'm looking forward to seeing how you take on your next MoJ term — you've got a great mindset, and I think you're going to do really well. Always happy to chat or support if you need anything along the way!

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23.05.2025 00:03:44
Gemima1984

Blecky89 wrote: (original post HERE)
Hi @Gemima1984 – sorry for the late reply! I was hoping to hear back on the improvements I’d suggested around xeets before responding, so I could offer something more concrete than just a vague “I’ll do my best.” Unfortunately, I’m still...
Hi Blecky, cheers for the reply and for looking into this. I appreciate it can be hard to get changes implemented here with regards to new features and bug fixes and moderators are somewhat limited to these constraints. Thanks for raising it and escalating the concerns and sorry to hear you've been unsuccessful in getting a response thus far.

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04.06.2025 09:52:32
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I love interacting with thembos who blocked me, personally. We can't advance as a society if we never engage in healthy conversations with those who we disagree with.

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