Love and sex

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Glarim
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Freethinkerland
24.01.2017 11:01:42
lillyfee

love 24/7/365/100000000 and more
sex from time to time when it makes sense

24.01.2017 11:01:42
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Level 35
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Freethinkerland
24.01.2017 16:12:32
Fari2.0

Sex should be given only in marriage

24.01.2017 16:12:32
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Reasonopia
30.01.2017 05:43:14
Squid

To me, sex and love are like a venn diagram. They overlap but one isn't required for the other one to be there. Ultimately in any case, I want to know the person well and be clear what both of us expect of the relationship.

30.01.2017 05:43:14
My favorite quote when I'm feeling like crap is: "...You’re not perfect. You don’t need to be. You’re not a failure. You’re learning."
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Secville
03.06.2017 12:47:02
xx_maisygrace_xx

what happens if you never find love??

03.06.2017 12:47:02
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Atheista
04.06.2017 11:55:54
AliceCara101s

Well for me love comes from everywhere, either it from family or from friends, that's why I believe when it come to sex, it's okay between friend, or at least your best friend if you're having commitment issue like I do. As long as you're comfortable doing so.

04.06.2017 11:55:54

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Reasonopia
07.06.2017 22:15:18
luxokay

I don't think there is any moral obligation to be truly in love before having sex. People shouldn't be scrutinized for doing something pleasurable (as long as it is consensual...) 

I personally, don't enjoy sex unless it is with someone I really love. I suffered from vaginismus for a long time, and had to do a lot of at home therapy for it. Vaginismus is sort of like the reflex of blinking when a foreign object goes near your eye, when an object is trying to be inserted into the vagina, the pelvic wall contracts in painful spasms, and basically closes the vaginal opening. It wasn't until I was 500% comfortable with my boyfriend that we were finally able to have sex without it being painful for me. 

We've only finally been having proper intercourse for the past few months, but it is wonderful. 

07.06.2017 22:15:18
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Level 8
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Secville
12.07.2017 18:14:51
LMagic75

sex with love is great without love can be good as well

12.07.2017 18:14:51
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Posts 211
Secville
04.08.2018 18:35:23
Carmel

When I was young all I had was sex without love something happened to me and it made me curious about men and sex. I started going to the same therapist my sister went to and after two sessions I took all my clothes and told him I wanted him to have sex with me he refused. The next session Took all my clothes off and masturbated until I came. He was very bothered by that and had a hard . the next session I did the same but this time he got on his knees and ate me out until I came then he took out his penis which was huge and I came two more times we met up for sex at least three times a week for almost two years. Now that I am married sex with love is amazing even if I have a fantasy of screwing my next door neighbor.

04.08.2018 18:35:23
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Atheista
12.05.2020 00:27:59
fickmaedchen

Love is not a prerequsite for sex. But a deep level of trust that you want the best for ur partner is.

12.05.2020 00:27:59

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Atheista
12.05.2020 02:19:36
Stargirl Caraway

i only enjoy it if i genuinely like the person and have feelings for them. i think it's everyone's personal choice what they do with their body. i do think that people should educate themselves on it first before they try it so that they can be safe and know how to do it right and enjoy it, just like anything else. i think that you can have one without the other but they're better together, kinda like how thc and cbd work better together but can be used separately too. 

12.05.2020 02:19:36

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