Ok, so I was like banging my guy in the bedroom and I noticed something different about the way he was touching me, like he was backing off and hesitating from me and I was like 'well why?!' so I investigated it further and I sorta found out that he could be getting bored of me! Like omg I just cannot deal with that at the moment its just so fucked up. Help people?!
Sex life down, any advice?
If he is getting bored, start making something new for you, as a couple.
Dress a little bit more naughty, tease him, touch him how you did when you were at first matches. Do something special, like a blowjob.
If you want to keep your boy, do whatever it takes to save the relationship.
Try to play roles.
But most important, talk to him, try to communicate about this, maybe you will find he has a problem, maybe it's not about you or other female.
Tip: before you want to have sex make him a shake with ginger or another aphrodisiac :)
Dress a little bit more naughty, tease him, touch him how you did when you were at first matches. Do something special, like a blowjob.
If you want to keep your boy, do whatever it takes to save the relationship.
Try to play roles.
But most important, talk to him, try to communicate about this, maybe you will find he has a problem, maybe it's not about you or other female.
Tip: before you want to have sex make him a shake with ginger or another aphrodisiac :)
You guys definitely need to communicate - in a non judgemental nor defensive way. Just be open and find out how both of you feel, what you can do to fix it, etc.
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I agree with Remi. Sex is all about communication.
You can't instinctively know what's going to please someone, like a very naive friend of mine used to believe - She was a virgin and completely disagreed with me about the communication thing, saying that "If you have to tell someone, it's not right. The love of your life will just immediately know how to make you happy in bed - I'm waiting for mine"
I was just a bit like "LOL, OK. Rome wasn't built in a day, but y'know"
Also, you can be creative with the talking. Make it hot by sexting him when he's at work or somewhere else inappropriate, then get him so turned on that he spills the beans on his wildest sexual fantasies, and then when he sees you again it'll be amazing. Maybe you're just stuck in a routine and need to mix things up a bit?
You can't instinctively know what's going to please someone, like a very naive friend of mine used to believe - She was a virgin and completely disagreed with me about the communication thing, saying that "If you have to tell someone, it's not right. The love of your life will just immediately know how to make you happy in bed - I'm waiting for mine"
I was just a bit like "LOL, OK. Rome wasn't built in a day, but y'know"
Also, you can be creative with the talking. Make it hot by sexting him when he's at work or somewhere else inappropriate, then get him so turned on that he spills the beans on his wildest sexual fantasies, and then when he sees you again it'll be amazing. Maybe you're just stuck in a routine and need to mix things up a bit?
OP is kind of vague. Backed off? Like slowed down or just pulled out and rolled over?
Maybe he just had something on his mind and couldn't concentrate on sex.
Maybe he just had something on his mind and couldn't concentrate on sex.
I suggest spicing it up and trying new things :) Like, try something kinky! It may sound weird but it's something new hehe ;u;
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I agree communication is important. Even if you try to spice things up or seduce him, it may not work if he has his reasons for doing so. And that would just make you feel worse.
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Unless you know what's at the heart of the problem and talk to him it's going to be a superficial/temporary fix. Most men appreciate it when you're straightforward and honest. A lot of times after those discussions the sex is even better.
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The best You can do is just ask him :) If his change came suddenly, maybe he has some shy, temporary problem and he hasn't told You about it, because he was afraid of Your reaction.
I had problem like You with my boy, he was ashamed of "low energy level" and after long conversations we deduce that it was because he is honorary blood donor and the day before he had gaven blood, and it decreases blood pressure. I spent long hours to convinced him, that saving someones life is more important, than sex. But first of all I just had to ask him :)
I hope You find a way to solve Your problem :)
I had problem like You with my boy, he was ashamed of "low energy level" and after long conversations we deduce that it was because he is honorary blood donor and the day before he had gaven blood, and it decreases blood pressure. I spent long hours to convinced him, that saving someones life is more important, than sex. But first of all I just had to ask him :)
I hope You find a way to solve Your problem :)
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