Check out this article on what the "perfect" man supposedly looks like according to men and women. I do think it's flawed biased research, since it was carried out by a UK clothing company called Jacamo, who produce clothes for larger men:
http://hellogiggles.com/perfect-man-study/
Remi wrote:Personally as someone who's had to deal with the issues of "Women must have no body hair" transitioning to male was an absolute blessing just letting my hair run wild... To a point. Personally I keep all my hair neat so its not too long - although not to the point I felt I had to before where it was non-existent. I agree with you on the number 3, I think a lot of men really need to take care of their appearance in some ways and maybe work a little on their fashion sense. Though a lot tend to find it emasculating personally I find it empowering to maintain my overall look. Scruffy clothes and hair is definitelyy not a good look.
Sidenote: Spas for men typically offer a back sack and crack deal when it comes to waxing!
What I saw today that I regret seeing? Looking up hairy skinny men.
Oh my !!!.
Thanks for your efforts Remi. Blindness doesn't sound so bad after all. At least you didn't go so far as to find the sack and crack deal on Google.
A previous post wrote about women going through such efforts for the men that they love. I still couldn't even wrap my mind about some the length of chest hair some of your pictures displayed. Come one, with such short hair on their heads, they must know what an electric trimmer is all about. Use a number 3 guide, for hells sake on your chest, is all I can say to men with un-rulely body hair. Why do I have such a crazy imagination?
Suddenly, I couldn't help but to imagine what those men would look like in their 60's. Nose hair like walrus tusks. Ear hair, gray and blowing in the breeze.
Please don't search out those pictures... Please !!!!!
It is funny though what you said about flannel shirts, and lumberjacks. I see them everyday, and now that you mention it, there does seem to be a lot of vegetation peeking out of the top of unbuttoned shirts. I just have never really looked at them before, with an eye towards them as sexual beings. They are just the common folk back from the mountains needing a shower a shave and a good hearty meal.
I waited to reply to your post because I wanted to take your advice, written between the lines. I am bi-sexual, and tend to only see women first.
So I decided to make a real effort to just look at men today at the shopping mall. My list of things I hate to see has grown. No fashion sense at all, in men's clothes. The nastiest 'gauged' earrings I could drive a motorcycle through. The disgusting tattoos, I can't even figure out why someone would want such deviant art permanently placed on their bodies. Seriously, what woman would be interested in a man with a spiders web, covering a man chin who she kisses. Or dripping daggers cutting out a heart out of a beast. To each their own I guess, so why did every man I just used as an example try to chat me up today?
They never even had a chance, but I was polite to them. Normally I wouldn't have even been that but I figured, that because I was staring at them they must have thought I was interested in them too. I flirted back, just to get a closer inspection of the men just for the sake of seeing a new perspective of the less/non- religious men in my community. That experiment didn't go to well. Not a single one even caused the slightest bit of arousal in me. Once they opened their mouths and actually began to talk to me, it was game OVER, often in less than two sentences. I really was trying to be open to the idea, of experiencing a new adventure today.
Hummm... That was so not my style, and I felt so awkward trying to hit on men I actually didn't find to be attractive. I purposely picked the worst I could see that were there with friends in the sports clothing shops. I put some of my acting skills into play. My worst performance YET but I made 6 men very happy to be at the mall today. Every single one gave me numbers and felt hopeful for at least the next 24 hours.......
Try it gals, it was an adventure you have to experience for yourselves. (Don't try that in bars, please I purposely wanted to see sober men for this experiment. I already know what all drunk men are like.)
On the other part of your story though I'm very impressed! You must be very beautiful and confident to have done that! Personally I never get compliments or people flirting with me offline, before and after transition.I actually also love watercolor tattoos. They are rare here, and mostly only seen on women. It may be a cultural thing in America, but men seem to go with depictions of 'darkness'. I hate seeing dark themed tattoos. I know they all have meanings to the people that choose to wear them permanently.
My confidence is only because of the clothes I wear. The style of my hair, and the way I walk. I could be crushed by a bus tomorrow. So live like today is the last day you will ever see.My great grandmother on my mother's side grew up in the North of England and lived through both World War I and II.
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The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland is the worlds first democratic social media platform.
What is its mission?
Ximbolands mission is to serve the world by offering a truly democratic alternative to the established, familiar and autocratic social media platforms.
The establishment of The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland is a response to the widespread demand for a democratic alternative to autocratic social media governance. The world’s major social media platforms claim to be based on good will and fair governance however most seek to impose their world-view on all of their users.
Ximboland recognizes that democracy is the antidote to this problem.
What is the national flag of Ximboland?
When was The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland founded?
2007
What is the capital city of The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland?
Bimbo City
How many states make up The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland?
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What is a Ximbo?
Some people define a Ximbo as a superhuman - blessed with extraordinary good looks, intelligence and fashion sense.
Some people claim a Ximbo is a genderless or nonbinary superhuman.
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How can I become a Ximbo xitizen?
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What is a Ximbo senator?
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What is a Ximbo minister?
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Who is the Prime Ximbo?
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Where does the Prime Ximbo live?
The Prime Ximbo lives in the Pink House for the 3 month term they are in office.
I want to become a minister or Prime Ximbo. How do I do that?
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How often do elections take place?
The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland holds elections every 3 months for Prime Ximbo and every 3 months for State Ministers.
Where do important discussions take place?
The Town Square.
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The treasury/salary is the bank account of The Fashionable Republic of Ximboland. This figure is transferred to the paypal account of the Prime Ximbo at the end of their 3 month term in charge.
How is the treasury calculated?
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What are the national colours of Ximboland?
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How old must I be in order to become a Ximboland
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When are the national holidays of Ximbo
land?
Jan 1st New years day
Feb 12th Darwin day
Feb 14th Lovers day
March 8th Womens day
March 21st Spring solstice
April 13th The Hitchslap Day (Christopher Hitchens birthday)
May 3rd National day of reason
June 21st World Humanist Day
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Sep 21st Peace one day
Dec 25th Newtons birthday
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Who is the President of Ximboland?
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