Love: The Flutter 2.0 [Issue 3]

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01.02.2024 01:31:08
Honey Beee

Hi Dear Secvillians and Ximbos,

It’s that time of the month again, where we chat together in The Flutter! For those who don't know, The Flutter is Secville's monthly thread with a dedicated topic each month. Everyone, from Secville or not, is encouraged to participate!

Valentine’s day is just around the corner, and what a better time than now to think about love! Love is a beautiful feeling and experience that we have as humans. Love is also not exclusive to partners, but also to friends, family, pets, ourselves and other things! Aren’t we lucky to be able to feel love and experience it, receive it and give it? There are so many people to love and things to love! 

At the same time, what happens when love is no longer? How do we deal with heartbreak, the process of knowing oneself and losing oneself? Healing, growing, moving on from something, somewhere, or someone we thought we loved? When someone leaves.. or when you must leave?

I would like to share an iconic love poem:
Pablo Neruda
XVII (I do not love you...)

I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz,

or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off.

I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,

in secret, between the shadow and the soul.


I love you as the plant that never blooms

but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers;

thanks to your love a certain solid fragrance,

risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body.


I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.

I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;

so I love you because I know no other way


than this: where I does not exist, nor you,

so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,

so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

-

I would like to invite you all to share your thoughts on love! What do you love? Who do you love? What lover changed your life? What’s your favorite food? Poem? Mathematic equation? What are some ways you show love? Perhaps you already know your love language..?

What a beautiful thing, to be human and to love.


Much love,



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01.02.2024 01:33:46
Bambi Noelle

For me, the most rewarding love is the bond I have between my siblings. We’ve been through hell and back and were always there for each other. Saw the best in each other when we were at our worst. They were my first best friends. I wouldn’t know what I would do without them. 

01.02.2024 01:33:46

xoxo, Bambi

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01.02.2024 01:41:14
Honey Beee

There is something so amazing about having a relationship like that with your siblings <3 That's a wonderful feeling, thank you for sharing that :) 

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01.02.2024 02:41:31
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You're so fortunate to have siblings. I'm the only child and daughter of my family, so when I was a little girl decades ago, I had no one to play with and was often alone at home or handling the family store downstairs.

Never thought I'd ever got married, so I had many consented lovers in the past. Husband knew about this too but he accepted me still, so I'd take that as VERY LUCKY.

All of my past lovers knew and we agreed of our open relationships since we all didn't want to go beyond companionship as well as didn't want the relationship dramas.

It was a very interesting time of freedom and loving one another without any worries. We didn't care about our differences and just loved each other as we could, even with our weaknesses.

Sure, there were some scary ones and fights but most of us got back along together.

In the end, lots of us already got married, even surprising ourselves that we managed to do since we thought it was something impossible.

The rest still enjoyed the experiences of being free to be in open relationships and we still support them too since it's what they want. ♥️

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01.02.2024 02:57:26
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For a long while I've thought about where I'd end up in life in terms of love and relationships. Nowadays in gen-z relationships I see a lot of situationships and I've never liked that dynamic for myself. I've brainstormed having a sort of arranged relationship/marriage but I want a love like MGK and Megan Fox. Need a person who will dress like a referee when making it official /j. I believe in soulmates tremendously. 
In terms of siblings I have 3: 2 are half and 1 is full, though we never said step or half in our family, just siblings. Everything's just still kinda fucked up anyway though. I'm the youngest and though I don't have a relationship with all of them I know I could always go to any of them for help if I needed any. That's what siblings are for, love or not. 


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01.02.2024 05:48:04
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love is so simple and complicated at the same time

romantic relationship
im a huge sap when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend. idk I just love LOVE. valentines day has been by far my most favourite holiday ever since I was a kid, all the hearts everywhere, things are red and pink, you and your boo have a good ass reason to go on a nice date. its easy to love but at times it gets in the way of serious shit. when you love someone you dont want to upset them, hurt their feelings, confront them on certain things, etc.. and with a innocent mindset like that its easy to forget about your own needs and you slowly fall into accepting habits you probably wouldn't have. this doesn't necessarily reflect my current relationship, but boy oh boy did that affect my last one. I knew the guy was a total doofus and hurt me in many ways but because I loved him I tried to make things work when the reality of it was the fact he was far too immature to be in a relationship and put zero to no effort maintaining one. its tricky, even when you find a partner you feel like you have great communication with- having fights is almost heartbreaking of its own because you always fear the fact that maybe one of these fights can result into something bigger and worse., maybe not everyone is as anxious as me but lol do I fucking hate having fights. however at the same time its almost inevitable that you WILL have that ONE fight with your partner at one point, its almost like a learning curve in your relationship. its good to always try and be nice to each other and work through shit especially if theres a pattern that triggers these arguments. aside from the bad it feels so good to be in love lol. when I was single I couldn't believe people actually found calling their partners ''baby'' cute... however now it feels weird to call my bf by his name and not something like that or ''babe'' or the ultimate cringe- ''bubby.'' - GUILTY!! :D always find balance between yourself and your partner and don't lose yourself in it.

platonic relationships
im a huge advocate in the fact that friendship breakups can hurt so much more than relationship ones. when you get into a relationship, its not necessarily something you wish for... like I dont sit there on a random Tuesday thinking about how me and my man might break up... however with relationships (and this is more so a general thing, not the special instances) I feel like its almost easier to get over it cause its like.. its a romantic relationship and we are all familiar that romantic relationships may end whether its the stories we read, shows we watch or witnessing our parents gut-wrenching divorce... but what sucks is when you have a breakup with that best friend you vouched to attend their wedding with, be a kick ass aunt/uncle to the kid and planning out all these travel vacations. I literally didn't think about my ex nearly as much as I constantly reflect on my breakup with my ex-bestie. it SUCKS! IT HURTS! especially if you didn't expect something to happen. all the secrets you shared, all the things you've experienced, all the stories you have with them, obviously this could be said exactly the same regarding romantic relationships but I guess I'm mainly riding the train of ''if you know the feeling, you know.'' on a positive note though, I fucking love my bestie mommymilkers01. she came and brought me back to life considering the fact my trust was so fucked over by my ex-bestie, I turned into a hermit when it came to making friends. couldn't give a fuck about it, didn't want to give a fuck about it. when I thought to give my homie a chance, I am so happy that I did and beyond grateful to have her. I couldn't imagine a life without my crazy meg, shes my rock fr. 

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26.04.2024 20:46:18
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my sister is the person i love the most. i would give my life to her bc ı see no separation between us. however I would not give her my top nor my charger.

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01.05.2024 15:33:50
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i have so much love for the people in my life<3

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