opinions on monogamy, polyamory and open relationships.

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31.05.2022 09:53:27
dalbie

What anyone else does in their relationship is none of my buisness!

Personally though i like both the idea of monogamy and open relationships. I've only been in monogamous relationships but one day i'd love to try an open one, the issue is finding a partner who wants that too. polyamory however doesn't sound like it's for me, i would feel so bad whenever the other people involved did things without me.

31.05.2022 09:53:27
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31.05.2022 10:07:54
averagecarlisleenjoyer

i am personally a monogamy enjoyer, because i cant imagine myself in a polyamory or in an open relationship, and i think if my partner wants to be in one then i would be not happy about it, but if i really love that person then it can happen, that i can accept that. It depends on the relationship. And i personally think that if anyone wants to be in a polyamory or in an open relationship, and it doesnt hurt anyones feelings, then thats totally okay and none of anyone elses business. There is here in my country a celebrity pair and they live in an open relationship for example. I remember when they were presented to the public with this, they received a great deal of criticism for it. But i think they are a really good example for that, because they are really in love with eachother, and they think it also belongs to love that even with others, but they can experience all emotions. And they say that their marriage is perfect, in contrast, a great many monogamous relationships are doomed to death because an open relationship is not socially accepted, and so on. So i think a lot could be philosophized about this, but ultimately I think that as long as the parties feel comfortable in a relationship, it doesn’t matter if it’s a monogamous, polygamous, or open relationship.

31.05.2022 10:07:54
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31.05.2022 10:32:22
FOSTITIS

there's nothing wrong with poly, i think that's just how a lot of people love. i have a few poly friends who are happy with themselves and their partners (and their partners' partners). 
i don't think i could do it, though, personally. my self-esteem is way too low lmao. seeing my hypothetical partner achieve romantic or sexual happiness with someone else would just make me feel unneeded and inadequate. i don't think i could have room in my heart for more than one person, either.

31.05.2022 10:32:22
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31.05.2022 10:34:44
scacey

everyone can enjoy what they want, there's nothing inherently wrong with polyamory or monogamy. i wish polyamorous relationships were more talked about tho, because i feel like not many people know that it even exists and they get into monogamous relationships and then cheat on their monogamous partner. i have a friend who is poli but she didn't know for a few years and cheated on all of her boyfriends. now she's in a happy poly relationship <3 if you want to correct me on something feel free to dm me, i don't want to sound like "all poli people cheat", i just feel like often they don't know that they have any other choice bc it's not a common topic! same with gay people in straight relationships not knowing they are gay...

31.05.2022 10:34:44

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31.05.2022 11:07:49
Trinkbell

i've been in all three and really it come down to what you and your partner/partners want. Don't lie, don't be sneaky and always listen to each other.

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31.05.2022 14:14:57
Garny

i am polyamorous and i'd say it comes down to the person if they would be able to be secure in their relationship and are willing to put time and effort into more partners or seeing other people, trust and emotional intimacy can be hard for some people and if youre looking into getting more partners you should be prepared to put as much care to them as you would youre original partner 

31.05.2022 14:14:57
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31.05.2022 23:09:25
girlybop

idc what other ppl do 

31.05.2022 23:09:25
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31.05.2022 23:50:22
gyaruo

honestly idk why so many ppl hate on poly relationships so much, i wouldnt know myself tho since im not poly but all that rlly matters is communication imo

31.05.2022 23:50:22

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01.06.2022 00:26:07
amotherfucking chailatte

Mongamy - hahahahha if I found the right one I would agree to it I don't have anything against, is it just like one person for the rest of your life type of deal 
Polyamary - not for it but anyone who is go for it if your into it you do it man I'm just not into it
Open relationships - again I'm not for it but if you wanna goahread, I love ppl 

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01.06.2022 02:16:18
Corgi

anyone considering a polyamorous or open relationship should definitely have an open channel of communication with everyone involved and everyone needs to be enthusiastic about the idea, if one or more people are uncomfortable or insecure, that shit is gonna crumble like an apple and pastry based dessert. don't let anyone pressure you into an open or nonmono relationship if you don't understand, feel like your personal boundaries are being crossed or feel like its just not what you want ! however, i do think people should research nonmono relationships and things such the like of, because its just good information to understand and have. polyamory and open relationship structures are not for everyone, and polyamory trauma does exist, that is why people should be educated about relationship structures other than monogamy, rather than monogamous people hiding behind polyamory or an open relationship as an excuse to just have sex with more than one person when their partner doesn't want that :(

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