opinions on monogamy, polyamory and open relationships.

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30.05.2022 07:19:34
Corgi

he couldn't really find a discussion about it in the forum, so he figured he'd start it off !
what is your opinion on monogamy, polyamory and open relationships ? although an open relationship can technically go hand in hand with some polyamorous relationships, it sometimes doesn't and that's totally fine.
monogamy isn't really for him, it feels very uncomfortable and restrictive. he feels most comfortable in a situation where he can and does love multiple people in a romantic way !
( reminder that we are talking about ethical non-monogamy, not cheating )

30.05.2022 07:19:34
  
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30.05.2022 09:10:34
creamstarter

i like monogamy better since i don't like the thought of being vulnerable for more than 1 person. but i don't have anything for people in polyamorous relationships, do what makes you feel better unless you're not hurting anyone <3

30.05.2022 09:10:34

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30.05.2022 09:55:33
Corgi

thats fair beshtie, monogamous bimbos r totally valid ! <3

30.05.2022 09:55:33
  
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30.05.2022 10:00:58
Hello Tina

I think love can be shared between many people as long as everybody is on the same page! `

30.05.2022 10:00:58
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31.05.2022 01:55:18
hauntpsychic

Polyamory has licherally been so healing for me. I grew up thinking no one would ever want me, and now I got like a swarm of ppl who think I'm cute and sexy

31.05.2022 01:55:18
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31.05.2022 02:28:20
Corgi

he's so happy its been good for you ! ^^ it has also helped him in other ways, like helping him reevaluate his relationship with love as a whole thing, and relationships generally ! he used to be a very jealous and possessive person because he just never learned what love really was, he had never truly loved someone until recently. he thought the feeling of belonging to someone and having someone belong to you was all love was. polyamory has really opened his eyes to lots of things, including boundaries, and he is no longer a jealous person at all. he just wants to be happy and have his partner/s also happy, if his partner/s love someone, he will likely also love them, because he loves his partner/s !

31.05.2022 02:28:20
  
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31.05.2022 03:16:39
pepperoni

so first off, monogamy and polyamory are different types of relationships suited for different types of people and there's nothing wrong with either as long as we're all being ethical and respectful about it

personally, i don't think i'll ever be interested in monogamy again and i will be as up front about that with new potential partners as possible. i refer to myself as just non-monogamous/enm but tbh that's just me quibbling over labels bc i've seen a lot of really toxic communities that labeled themselves polyamorous so i now have an aversion to the term. i think nonmonogamy has helped me learn not to put all my needs on one person and actually to be more responsible for those needs myself and become more independent!

31.05.2022 03:16:39
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31.05.2022 03:57:54
Aveda

I respect all forms of relationships but I personally just think I look way too good to be with someone interested in other people ₍ᵔ.˛.ᵔ₎ 
I'm also very comfortable being single so I don't need to be dating anyone imo if seeing other people is what's happening. But different things work for different people this is just me ʕ ﹷ ᴥ ﹷʔ

31.05.2022 03:57:54
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31.05.2022 09:11:14
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ive heard one of my friends who ended up in an open/polyamorous relationship was sort of forced into it by their partner, i personally would enjoy being in a polyamorous relationship but i wouldnt be able to handle the fact that one of the persons in the circle might have been forced to go along with it :/ 

31.05.2022 09:11:14
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31.05.2022 09:20:41
Zephy

all of it is valid! Communication is the key to any relationship. I myself am strictly mono because my mental health issues could neverrrr

31.05.2022 09:20:41

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