opinions on monogamy, polyamory and open relationships.

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03.12.2022 16:56:18
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I think whatever works best for you is what you should do. I am unsure of what I would prefer honestly. Id like to think I can do poly but I'm not sure ya know

03.12.2022 16:56:18
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29.03.2023 12:43:53
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Discuss it with your partner (given you have one); I’m all for it as long as all parties agree to get tested, healthy relationships are a top priority

29.03.2023 12:43:53
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29.03.2023 19:26:46
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it's not really my thing personally but i respect it. i think people online get really weirdly aggressive about shitting on polyamorous people and it's strange to me... it literally doesn't affect you at all <3

29.03.2023 19:26:46
 
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29.03.2023 20:02:59
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loooved the poly relationships i was in and would 1000% manage one again if i had enough time on my hands for all the communication it takes lol!!! real fun except a little hard to get people in yer life to fully accept it as being a romantic thing and not just sexual x(

29.03.2023 20:02:59

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30.03.2023 20:27:48
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Polyamory comes very naturally to me, I've always been able to be in love with more than one person! Being in a closed polyamory relationship for over 5 years now has honestly been the best relationship I've ever had, and comparing it to others we know, we're the most healthy relationship most people have ever seen. We've never had a fight or argument. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!!!

30.03.2023 20:27:48
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30.03.2023 21:42:57
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personally not for poly cause I hate sharing, I don't mind an open relationship with someone who I don't really care about too much. Monogamy is the only way for me in the long run

30.03.2023 21:42:57

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31.03.2023 18:44:10
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Im in team poly, cause mono doesnt work for me since....maybe one year...i think.
Long story....

31.03.2023 18:44:10
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01.04.2023 16:02:27
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This maybe a hot take or controversial opinion but I believe that people who want polyamorous or open relationships are greedy and have commitment issues. It's not hard to find one person to spend your life with and stay loyal to just them. I suppose it's not so bad if you are single and enter into a poly group or just sleep around; you do you boo. But if you start in a mono relationship and try to push your mono partner into it, then you disgust me. I have known tons of people who have had their self-esteem destroyed this way because it's hard not to feel like "Maybe I'm not good enough" if your partner wants other people when otherwise your relationship has been good and all of a sudden suggest seeing others for sexual or romantic reasons. Idk I guess I just cant understand having that much room in heart or life for more than one special bond.

01.04.2023 16:02:27
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03.05.2023 18:56:32
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I'm fine with them #youdoyou, as long as your partner knows and you're both okay with it then good for you!

03.05.2023 18:56:32
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03.05.2023 19:09:23
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Do what you want as long as u have respect for your boundaries and drop the red flags

03.05.2023 19:09:23
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