Relationship/Family problems

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Uthenastacy
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Atheista
04.02.2016 22:36:02
Uthenastacy

ok so there is two things weighing heavily on my heart
1st my god father passed and i when he was in the hospital i only went and saw him twice then to top all of that off my family members told me i was the reason why he got sick ( we he found out i got pregnant) now this may not be true but I'm feeling very guilty.

2nd me and my boyfriend is going through some trials and its really stressful we have been arguing more then anything lately and i don't know what to do.

i just need words of encouragement or some advice right now


04.02.2016 22:36:02
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Freethinkerland
05.02.2016 00:19:02
icekream

I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand that your family members are hurt but so are you and it's very insensitive for them to be putting the blame on you for his death. I'm just glad you had enough time to say goodbye to him. You can feel guilty all that you want to but know that it won't bring your father back. I don't know the whole story, but I don't think it's your fault. Babies are a blessing, remember that. Let go of that guilt so you can grieve peacefully.
I don't know what's going on between you and your man, but whatever it is as long as your bond is strong and you love each other unconditionally then you will get through it. It might be hard right now, but it will pass.


05.02.2016 00:19:02
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Antitheocra
05.02.2016 09:22:43
PrincessEstell

theres nothing wrong with pregnancy. difficult? stressful? time consuming? of course. but wrong? NO! your father should be happy he knew of his grand baby before he passed away. your family is insensitive, but thats fine because i come from an insensitive family too. so i understand. im very sorry about your father, though. also, about your boyfriend..ive learned from past relationships the more you cling on the more they hurt you. but if you have respect for yourself and know your worth and believe that you can do absolutely fine without your boyfriend then hell start seeing too, and never want to lose you. never chase a boy. (:


05.02.2016 09:22:43
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05.02.2016 10:13:44
BambiDoll

Sorry to hear this - You really shouldn't be made to feel any guilt for what you choose to do with your own body. That's a pretty disgusting and irresponsible thing for your family to say, if I'm honest

As for your boyfriend, it would make sense if you're arguing a lot when you're both going through a lot of stressful things. It seems like a pretty natural response, so try not to worry too much. You might need each other more right now, or just need space to deal with your own lives for a bit. Just a rough patch by the sounds of things.

05.02.2016 10:13:44
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10.02.2016 01:15:54
Uthenastacy

thanks you guys i been dealing with the depression for a while and i talked to my god sisters and they all told me that wasn't the case my grandmother was just being nasty and i really appreciate the advice

10.02.2016 01:15:54
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Freethinkerland
13.02.2016 20:47:51
BeautyXRush

It's not your fault he got sick. My dad pulled the same thing and told me I killed my grandmother because of the truth I told of the abuse I endured as a child and some how that killed her. No, people simply get ill, or die of old age. 

As for your boyfriend. If you really love him there's no argument or fight you can't get through. Relationships can be hard but if you can get through things together they can be beautiful :)



13.02.2016 20:47:51
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Freethinkerland
14.02.2016 07:59:42
IslandDream

aww sowwy to hear all that is going in in your life..thats what we're here for to help each otherz and help you :)
*hands you a box of kweenexes* :)

14.02.2016 07:59:42
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14.02.2016 10:40:19
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I don't do hugs but do you want a hug?
* opens arms out to you *

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17.03.2016 10:09:39
Call_me_blondie_doll

There is no right advice... You need to ask yourself what you want from life, would you like to try hard to fix all what is done... I'm in  long relationship (6,5 years) and we fixing things every day... It's true love...

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15.05.2016 13:21:06
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Family is love...

15.05.2016 13:21:06

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