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Uthenastacy
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30.07.2018 02:33:37
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We went to breakfast with my parents and two nieces. I told my hubby and my daddy that they need to kiss and make up or they had to do a dance off....now they are back being the best of friends. Ooooo I am so glad I didn't have to sit through my dads booty dance.

30.07.2018 02:33:37
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30.07.2018 08:57:27
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Well you handled that situation perfectly. I'm glad they are back to being friends again (without your dad's booty dance lol) :)

30.07.2018 08:57:27
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31.07.2018 01:35:50
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Thank you my family is soooo unorthodox it is absolutely crazy all the ..I felt bad for bringing my husband into this family but his family is almost as bad as mine. We are currently group texting for an ALL family holiday in August... So far we have a Sangria bar(yah) and meatless barbecue(yuck)

31.07.2018 01:35:50
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02.08.2018 09:22:33
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i told you:) mostly those fights end after some days:) and some fighting is normal...
i would only be worried...if this goes over weeks

02.08.2018 09:22:33
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03.08.2018 03:10:16
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Thank you I appreciate it now they are besties again. Tonight they are watching the Bears game loudly.

03.08.2018 03:10:16
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10.01.2023 20:59:33
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idk what to do my bf is very toxic he throws me onto a wall and it hurts me and he also chokes me and he says if i leave him he'll kill my pet cat and im very sensitive with my cat because she got declawed before i got her and she was abused and i just need help

10.01.2023 20:59:33
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10.01.2023 21:22:48
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Leave. If he threats 'what he is going to do if you leave', it all can happen if you don't leave, because such minds always find a 'reason'.
Ideally would be if you can leave in one day and go somewhere where he can't find you. Take the cat with you of course.

Talk to someone you know well whom you can count on can help and support you. Don't isolate yourself from other people, he should know you are not alone, that someone cares for you or just simply knows you. Family members, friends, co-workers... anything counts. When he knows there are people around you he will think twice before make some stupid move. I hope his threats are just empty words but you know him best. If he has already showed violence and has a bad history, run from it. You don't need it in your life.

I would say report him, but if you don't feel safe and still share space with him, it's probably safer to leave first.

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22.01.2023 08:06:56
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My boyfriend stresses me out so much. I feel kinda horrible saying it but he honestly does and I really don't think I'm meant to date him. I cant stand his jealousy towards my friends or just random people that hit on me. I don't know why he is thinking I'm going to go off with someone, I've never done it before and i have no interest in dating other people. I recently was hanging out with one of my bestfriends who i guess had a thing for me in middle school, but like its been years, and my boyfriend was acting weird for the next week. He's constantly like getting anxiety over something im doing apparently wrong so i feel like im walking on eggshells with him, he makes me feel like im half responsible for his mental health and i just cant be. I really like him as a person but i think i might just not be suited for a relationship. I dont know if i actually want to break up with him but avoiding him because i can never truly laugh or relax with him just isnt it. 
Admittedly not a huge problem in the grand scheme of things, but still stresses me the fuck out.

22.01.2023 08:06:56

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