What do you do after a breakup?

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19.07.2019 04:15:02
Channing

Hi everyone!
I recently got out of a really toxic relationship and I want to make sure I don't go back. Does anyone have any post breakup tips?

Thanks!

19.07.2019 04:15:02

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19.07.2019 04:35:54
Esuna

Therapy, and a positive support system. There is strength in numbers.

I remember when I was so embarrassed being in a toxic/abusive relationship I tried to hide the things wrong out of shame. Now everyone knows, and it seems so trivial that I hid everything from those closet to me. If I would have confided earlier to my family, I probably would have been able to suffer less and be able to be strong enough to leave the toxicity.

19.07.2019 04:35:54
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19.07.2019 04:38:26
Channing

Thank you for that Esuna. In hindsight, I wish I had paid attention to the signs sooner. Even though I tried to hide things, now that it's over, everyone seems to have known all along. 

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19.07.2019 09:57:51
Sandi Lut

When I got out of the toxic relationship I had the one thing that helped not to go back was accepting that it happened and not to blame myself. Confiding in others like your close ones does help. It's no use asking yourself why you didn't see the signs or why you stayed in the relationship. That will not help get over the break up. Acceptance is the first but very important step to start getting over the relationship.
Good luck Channing :)

19.07.2019 09:57:51
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19.07.2019 14:39:50
Channing

Thanks Sandi!

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22.08.2019 13:17:16
Chassi

I delete the number. Remove any social connection so I don't have to talk to them again. 

I would follow what Esuna and Sandi Lut said. Their suggestions are positive..

22.08.2019 13:17:16
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22.08.2019 13:54:03
Anabelle.666

Channing wrote:
Hi everyone!
I recently got out of a really toxic relationship and I want to make sure I don't go back. Does anyone have any post breakup tips?

Thanks!
Hi! I went trugh few toxic relationship. You should think about reasons why you two broke up and realize you are lucky. It would be worse for you to stay with someone who don't make you happy for some reasons. Go out, put your make up on and enjoy in freedom hun. 
P.S. Make sure he knows what he lost.  <3


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22.08.2019 22:03:47
galaxykitty

getting out of a toxic relationship takes a lot out of a person so i think like someone suggested cut ties and focus on yourself and focus on what brings you happiness 

22.08.2019 22:03:47
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23.08.2019 11:44:47
Channing

Thanks for this advice Chassi!

Chassi
wrote:
I delete the number. Remove any social connection so I don't have to talk to them again. 

I would follow what Esuna and Sandi Lut said. Their suggestions are positive..


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Work on yourself set some new goals!

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