my opinion on transitioning

Last term Prime Ximbo earnings
$493.6

This term Prime Ximbo earnings
$192.6

Still 61 days to go

Category
Xemocracy Arena

Posts
459

Created
29.03.2024

Author
ButterfIy

Sw33t4sNvts F0REVER

Level 32
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 25778
Reputation: 6435
Posts: 260

4 11

04.04.2024 05:08:13
Sw33t4sNvts F0REVER

Cunning Linguist wrote:

laughing at the idea that 'misogynist' is a sexuality

tho actually....with the andrew tate types it might as well be....

it is a laughing matter that woman attracted to men wants to be a man

it is a laughing matter that you as an expert on genderism dont know is such woman gay or straight.

Or just a mysoginist who hates women and womanhood and subsequently herself

you create false genders and sexualities just to justify your fetishes, get gender privileges and invalidate real women and men AND THEN subsequently claim to be morally outraged when someone questions it.

All you care about is trans privileges and bringing real and healthy men and women down.

We should be very suspicious of your opinion and motivations

04.04.2024 05:08:13

I am former SweetasNuts FOREVER.

Do not get confused and mistake me for original SweetasNuts AND THEN subsequently claim to be morally outraged by impersonation and roleplay. Then we should be very suspicious of your opinion and motivations.

Cunning Linguist

Level 75
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 334837
Reputation: 60593
Posts: 190

9 4

04.04.2024 06:22:09
Cunning Linguist

Iowa wrote:

ok you got me there lol i was being hyperbolic

for some context as someone within the community, trans people who don't transition usually have complex reasons for it. it might be because of a health issue that transitioning would exacerbate, or it would put them in danger at their job or with their family, or it might just be because they have a complicated relationship with themselves and their own body. but as i said before we are also very acutely aware of how other people see us. i know multiple trans women who are, in all settings outside of a single friend group, closeted. they do not use the women's restroom even though i go to a private university that has policies that allow trans students to use the bathroom of their gender identity. idk how else to explain this except to say that we really would rather not be publicly assaulted or cause a scene lol

^was gonna say this too. I know straight up passing trans people who are scared to use the bathroom they want to. ive never been accosted in a bathroom by a trans person. theyre just pissing in a stall & trying to leave as fast as possible. but ive seen more than a couple cis women harrassed in womens bathrooms for not looking feminine enough!

All this conversation shows is that these weirdos have never interacted with a trans person irl, OR have interacted with maybe one outlier trans person who they found weird/annoying. its easy to scaremonger about a small minority that most people dont understand, & yall really fell for it

how many times have you personally been assaulted by a trans woman in a bathroom? are you followed into an alley & threatened at gunpoint on the daily for calling a person with a beard "he"? are you literally being arrested, fired, or facing literally any irl consequences for not liking trans people?

this convo is so crazy because it's literally such a non-issue - yall even admit that trans people are nagligible minority. it's just the rightwing 'outrage of the day'. because they always need something to distract people from real issues like economic disparity, eroding democracy, & sexual violence (which is almost always committed by someone you know & think you can trust - since yall dont interact with any trans people irl, id say you dont have to worry about that!)

04.04.2024 06:22:09

cybeles

Level 26
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 13247
Reputation: 8219
Posts: 150

10 6

04.04.2024 06:27:41
cybeles

Bimbo Pimp wrote:

What makes a transperson bad is entering a space fully aware that women are going to be scared of them and still not care. I am a tiny slender little thing, when I travel I am scared to go to the bathroom alone. It is so eerie in there at 2a.m, I'd pee my pants if I saw a dude pop out of a stall. My husband always stands by outside waiting, what a gent huh :3 lol I'm a minority too but holy shit, I'd be embarrassed to demand privilages above others. I also do not have a victim mentality because that is unproductive. Misogyny is sexism to keep women below men. Such as women say no to male presenting trans entering and you saying that they belong there no matter what we feel.Men rights above women's rights. Misogyny. I am telling you I need to become a teacher! lawlz ^.^

Trans woman: "Hi, I was wondering if I could have the right to use the womens restroom when there is no unisex/disabled bathrooms available? I feel very uncomfortable in the men's bathroom, as it causes me dysphoria and I could be unsafe in there when I am presenting femininely."

Transphobe: "How DARE you DEMAND PRIVILEGES ABOVE OTHERS?!?! You are NOT the VICTIM, you are a PREDATOR for even THINKING TO USE THE WOMENS BATHROOM!!!!! YOU ARE GOING TO ASSAULT ME!!!!1!1!!"

7% of sexual assaults are perpetrated by strangers. Trans people are 4 times as likely to be the victim of an assault. These people do not 'have a victim complex', they are cautious of the likelihood because it is so common. I'm genuinely glad you have someone to help you feel safe when you need it. I wish that all women, including trans women, had that kind of luxury.

All of this stigma against trans women is the reason that so many of them choose to 'boymode' when in public. Its the reason that trans people are more likely to suffer from social anxiety and agoraphobia. They don't want to make other people uncomfortable, so they make themselves uncomfortable. The trans people and allies who stand up to the stigma and unfounded criticism are the loud minority. The entire reason that so many trans people don't medically transition is because of the stigma that has infected the accessibility of hormones. It is expensive if done privately, and takes years if done through public healthcare.

If you want to learn more about the struggles of medically transitioning, watch this video.

04.04.2024 06:27:41

Vote for 'Someone Else' here!

he/him - capricorn - 19 - do not support a Ximboland with a Dictator!!

pro-palestine - pro-choice - pro-trans - propagandist

Saturday

Level 13
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 1526
Reputation: 1120
Posts: 72

8 12

04.04.2024 06:42:46
Saturday

Right… and I think you’re forgetting that the vast majority of sexual assaults happen in unisex facilities. Which, you know, is what the women’s bathroom is turning into when they let these mentally ill men into women’s spaces. Like, if it wasn’t bad enough that women’s spaces were being taken away by men trying to assimilate themselves for fetishism it’s even worse then you realise they’ll gladly berate women at the drop of the hat if they don’t affirm them. I think because they perceive women as nicer and softer (which is typically true however a lot of women are capable of standing up for themselves), they want to be ‘one of the girls’ which is disgusting. You are a man you will never be one of the girls and you’ll never know that experience because your lived experience is one of a MANS.

04.04.2024 06:42:46

Cunning Linguist

Level 75
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 334837
Reputation: 60593
Posts: 190

12 5

04.04.2024 06:55:01
Cunning Linguist

most sexual assaults DO happen in mixed-sex environments - like a party, someone's car, your own home, or literally anywhere else. most sexual assaults DONT happen in bathrooms, regardless of if trans people are allowed or not. but good try lol

(theres also a ton of sexual assaults happening in single-sex prisons....by cis people of the same sex, & by male prison guards. why are you more mad about a hypothetical trans person than you are about the many non-trans-related rapes actually happening?)

the funny thing is that almost nowhere had explicit bans against trans people in bathrooms until the last decade. trans women been using the womens room way before that....& it wasnt an issue. stop falling for rage bait.

i'd say touch grass & actually interact with one (1) trans person irl, but with your level of pearl-clutching derangement that may actually be unsafe for the trans person

04.04.2024 06:55:01

cybeles

Level 26
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 13247
Reputation: 8219
Posts: 150

10 5

04.04.2024 06:56:57
cybeles

Saturday wrote:

You are a man you will never be one of the girls and you’ll never know that experience because your lived experience is one of a MANS.

you're right, i am a man. a trans man. r/accidentalally.

04.04.2024 06:56:57

Vote for 'Someone Else' here!

he/him - capricorn - 19 - do not support a Ximboland with a Dictator!!

pro-palestine - pro-choice - pro-trans - propagandist

Bimbo Pimp

Level 61
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 181337
Reputation: 37555
Posts: 1544

6 8

04.04.2024 07:24:51
Bimbo Pimp

cybeles- If you have transitioned then yeah I'd be ok with sharing a bathroom with you. If men don't want to transition then what is the problem with them using the male restrooms? We women have fought for the right to have women only spaces and it isn't fair for men to take that away. I rarely hear anything from transmen in male spaces. In sports they aren't dominating and therefore transmen are not even in the discussions 99% of the time. Those rapes that you speak of are men raping men. lol Big surprise, men are dangerous to women and to each other. I think you guys are missing the point, trans have been using our bathrooms for many years. They have done everything to look like a woman and they are respectful. However the "new" trans look like dudes and they want to get in there without having to look like women which is questionable.Transmen here cutting their tits off and these bearded trans don't even want to shave it off. That is insane XD

04.04.2024 07:24:51

Cunning Linguist

Level 75
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 334837
Reputation: 60593
Posts: 190

8 4

04.04.2024 08:31:49
Cunning Linguist

what we're saying tho is that pre-transition, early-transition, & non-passing trans women are rarely, if ever, using the womens restroom or locker room. when they are, theyre just pissing like everyone else - they're not trying to purposely make you feel uncomfortable (which is why most non-passing trans women continue to use the mens room long after starting transition - even though their risk of assault in the mens room is way higher than anyone's risk of assault in the womens room)

trans people are a small percentage of the entire population. trans women are an even smaller subgroup. trans women who actively have beards are a tiny section of that small subgroup. trans women who have beards & still use the womens facilities are an even smaller portion of that already teeny tiny percentage of people. it's so small as to be negligable.

how often in bathrooms are you actually encountering fully bearded macho trans women making no effort to pass as women? if you've ever actually encountered this - were they threatening you, or were they just using a stall & washing their hands?

(or are you just afraid of this incredibly rare situation bc of media fearmongering? be honest)

04.04.2024 08:31:49

Abu Hamza

Level 27
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 15120
Reputation: 9833
Posts: 488

4 9

04.04.2024 09:30:17
Abu Hamza

salam my siblings of many genders and many thoughts,

i can see you have been discussing well. 10 pages and counting - what an open space for conversation, mashallah.

however, if we're being realistic, most of you will never experience the issue of being trans or being a doctor who has to feed anyone the right pills.

what i can see though is a great passion for reading, learning, and discussing.

and i can see all of you, no matter what side you're on, could greatly use some islamic influence.

so, i have this beautiful idea for all of you who have been active here:

we should start a quran learning & discussion thread, where we can study different parts of quran every week and share our interpretations and opinions.

i see many of you like reading, quoting, and discussing, so i am sure i will see you all there. it will be a much more islamic use of this wonderful brainpower you've all displayed.

peace be with you all in your fight against the cis or the trans or iblis, and i hope many of you will consider joining my quran course inshallah.

04.04.2024 09:30:17

هناك الكثير من النساء بدون الحجاب هنا

Sandi Lut

Level 286
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 28365573
Reputation: 273569
Posts: 4207

11 0

04.04.2024 10:04:23
Sandi Lut

Yet you are still wearing tight pants, which is not allowed by the Quran. So you might want to look at yourself first dude

04.04.2024 10:04:23

Happiness is inside yourself

Prime Ximbo Fashion Contest

Don't forget to sign-up for the Prime Ximbo Fashion Contest!
Time left for registration:

Ximboland news

ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ Craze Suggestions Thread
Hey lovelies !!!! Sooooooooooo, I know previous administrations have done suggestions for each weekly craze. I’ve been setting these past few crazes and themes for them myself, but i’d like to adjust some things from the previous term starting in...
Spirit Week Planning
Hey everyone! During the second week of September, I’m going to be hosting my final Spirit Week as SM!! Click Here to learn about spirit week if you’re new to it! It’s a ton of fun and i’m super excited to be hosting another one!! Right...
testing for marr
testing for marr. he can delete this...

Hot in the forum

Forgotten Woods: Atheista Monthly Contest
Hello and welcome to Atheista’s monthly fashion contest! Our theme is: Forgotten Woods Eerie noises come from the woods late at night, and you swear you see shadows gliding through the bushes at the woodland edge. Strange things lurk deep in the...
how long would it take you to realize youre a vampire
personalluy i dont think id realize for a while and my reasons are as follows i work nightsim naturally incredibly pale (again i work nights also i use sunscreen a lot i already sleep during the dayall i eat is slim jims and white monsteri already...
fashion fight ring scandol!
i was who report titandass as cheat. i notice accounts past months level up high in short time. teh account fashion fight each other mostly that how i notice. i notice titsandass august 17 an passport day create say august 15. it had over 100s stat...
Reputation points helper thread
So we have helper topics on the forum for Badge collection. Fight Club and Quest for Curious Badge. Can I ask if you'll be so kind as to like this forum topic to help with Reputation points. My Idea is this everyone can just add something here and...
The Ximboland Slayyycast: Live Breaking News and Feature Reports
Welcome to the Ximbloand Slayyycast News Room. Your Hosts Katie and Slayto will be bringing you the slayyytest news and gossip covering all things Within the Borders of the Ximboland Nation. This just in from our roving reporter Marie: ...

Ximboland stats

Population: 290395
Prime Ximbo: SweetasNuts
Treasury (USD): $192.60
Next Prime Ximbo election: 01.11.2024
Next State Minister elections: 15.09.2024
State in Charge: Atheista
Social media: | |
Best State Warriors this month:

Audrey12345 - 558960 points
Senator - lvl 260
Susan Slutzky - 305656 points
Senator - lvl 236
KatieBoutique - 303224 points
Senator - lvl 271
l - 200160 points
Citizen - lvl 161
Janeze321 - 181078 points
Citizen - lvl 155
Sexiest this week:

Kaitlyn1987 - 33148 points
Senator - lvl 92
che guevera - 14031 points
Legal Alien - lvl 45
Sandi Lut - 13937 points
Senator - lvl 286
Janeze321 - 11517 points
Citizen - lvl 155
Jake Gyllenhaal - 11294 points
Citizen - lvl 131
Most reputable this week:

Spiffyfunpants - 8087 points
Senator - lvl 277
Susan Slutzky - 6326 points
Senator - lvl 236
lovelifegirl - 6303 points
Senator - lvl 172
Janeze321 - 5783 points
Citizen - lvl 155
Katrynah - 4598 points
State Minister - lvl 247
Best fighters this week:

Katrynah - 189 points
State Minister - lvl 247
muckie - 91 points
Citizen - lvl 36
LoveSoldier - 91 points
Citizen - lvl 33
Nyvielz - 88 points
Citizen - lvl 51
Puta Madre25 - 84 points
Citizen - lvl 75
Best debaters this week:

CinnamonAndSunshine - 207 points
Citizen - lvl 224
halobear8 - 142 points
State Minister - lvl 84
Eligor - 138 points
Senator - lvl 243
Soobin - 131 points
Citizen - lvl 87
Jake Gyllenhaal - 122 points
Citizen - lvl 131