Anyone else struggle with making friends in real life?

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06.10.2021 09:31:48
Bubblegumbabey2000

peeslurper69 wrote:
does anyone have any ideas how to even make friends irl? this sounds sad but i'm a recovering agoraphobe so i'm only really starting to leave my house now...the only chances i've had at making friends was school and well. the mental hospital i just got out of, but they live far enough away that i can't see them easily. i'm looking to get a job so potentially i could make friends w coworkers but. yeah idk. how do you meet people near you ??????????????
sorry to hear about your current situation I can relate as I'm also a recovering agoraphobe! I would recommend looking at your town/region/cities/whatever local interest/hobby groups (anime, book clubs, cooking etc) I know where I live the best place to find these is at your closest public library or the libraries website I know all of the public libraries i've been too usually have sections with pamphlets with things to do/groups in your area or a cork/pinboard listing interest groups they hold at the library. You might find similar groups through youth facilities and mental health facilities I currently work as a co-facilitator for a local youth art group that's run by a mental health facility for young people so the groups they facilitate are sensitive to the needs of people with anxiety which may be helpful and (imo) a great way to make friends but for some groups you may need to be of a certain age tho. 
Outside of work and study it's really difficult to make friends (and maintain a friendship) esp as an adult. I hope this was of any help at all lol it helped me when I was being homeschooled. 
I wish you the best of luck and hope you make meaningful bonds with people who care about you!


06.10.2021 09:31:48

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06.10.2021 22:59:10
peeslurper69

thank you so much! i am looking into my local NAMI group so i'll have that hopefully, and i forgot about the stuff libraries offer, that's a great idea! thank you <3

06.10.2021 22:59:10
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08.10.2021 01:18:35
pradaflesh

yes, most of my irl friends are busy or moved away

08.10.2021 01:18:35

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09.10.2021 13:25:02
celeste sunset

yeah literally all my close friends are the ones I've known for years, meeting new people and developing that relationship from the start is so hard 

09.10.2021 13:25:02
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04.09.2022 13:06:06
GarbageCalix

For me then it isn't so much making friends, I can do that pretty alright, I at least am able to make some friends. My problem lies in being able to keep them, it always happens one way or another, and the friendships I make end up never lasting. It sucks and I do hate it, but at this point I've gotten so used to it, that I don't really see it as something all that bad.

04.09.2022 13:06:06
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04.09.2022 15:10:55
gjkvkh

OH HELL YEAH :(
ITS REALLY FUCKING HARD TO MAKE FRIENDS

04.09.2022 15:10:55
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04.09.2022 18:33:16
adelita

yeah but at this point idc. i’ll start worrying when i have no friends in college though

04.09.2022 18:33:16

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04.09.2022 20:15:06
BambiBay

yep, im the biggest antisocial fuck HAA

04.09.2022 20:15:06

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04.09.2022 20:19:58
jaded west

yeah i started college recently and i havent talked to anyone in my classes yet :( im sad bc i was hoping id make friends in class but im too anxious to make the first move

04.09.2022 20:19:58
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04.09.2022 21:26:23
mikanapi

yeah especially since i've been pregnant and not working so I don't go anywhere like ever lmao

04.09.2022 21:26:23

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