Anyone else struggle with making friends in real life?

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01.10.2023 00:56:53
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defo! plus i have so much social anxiety so it really sucks but my edibles help me 

01.10.2023 00:56:53
only kind people r hot <3
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02.10.2023 16:06:50
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Depends

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02.10.2023 20:35:11
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i've never been good with starting conversations, so it's definitely a weak spot :( even online i'm not one to butt into conversations or start them in certain situations. it's hard! but i try. social anxiety/general social weaknesses aside, i don't do to bad when i'm approached! sometimes. 

02.10.2023 20:35:11

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06.10.2023 07:49:02
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I'm pretty good at it for someone who's an introvert. I've been described as being easy to talk to, carefree, bubbly and nice :). Though, I don't keep many people around me because of my trust issues. I can keep a good conversation but I am weary, especially if red flags start to show our first conversation. but I just try to be nice all around :)

06.10.2023 07:49:02

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20.10.2023 16:46:23
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Always. I'm a very passionate and sensitive person,  I don't realize when the nasty comment was a joke or for real, stayed friends with bad men for too long because they "loved me" and stayed friends with mean girls because I couldn't see their cruelty. If you're ever in a friend group and you have multiple people talking badly about one another to you, always, it's not just venting, it's the whole funtion that that group operates on. And if they can talk shit about one another to you, they most certainly can talk to shit about you too.
"You could be the ripest juiciest peach in the world, and there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches" - Dita Von Tesse 

20.10.2023 16:46:23
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22.10.2023 04:24:20
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my only friend is my nail tech ! although im super extroverted ive learned that keeping a handful of ppl that actually care about u will always be superior than having a lot of "friends" :/ 

22.10.2023 04:24:20
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24.10.2023 02:26:27
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Sometimes

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04.11.2023 09:19:39
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Somehow yes.. I actually made so many friends a few years ago but I somehow cant today.. I actually hate it very much-

04.11.2023 09:19:39

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04.11.2023 19:56:00
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Yes, sometimes is like i don't really fit with most people. After graduating, it's even harder.

04.11.2023 19:56:00

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05.11.2023 03:39:26
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It's not hard for me to make them necessarily but keeping them is another story. I'm very transparent about my feelings and I like for others to be the same. Most people do not like it when you stand up for yourself or establish boundaries. My Internet friends are great though and I hope to eventually meet them IRL. ❤️

05.11.2023 03:39:26

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