Anyone else struggle with making friends in real life?

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23.05.2023 00:28:43
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i have a very hard time finding good people /:

23.05.2023 00:28:43
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23.05.2023 06:57:15
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yes especially since i'm not in school and im autistic :)

23.05.2023 06:57:15

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23.05.2023 10:45:16
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i struggle more with maintaining friendships 

23.05.2023 10:45:16
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23.05.2023 15:54:11
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I'm a bit of a loner as most people annoy me & I am so blunt about it outside of work. I cannot stand people who talk to me when I'm working as they all say the same thing even though they're just trying to be nice or trying to be friends but it sounds so patronizing to me that it pisses me off & I hate having to repeat myself to every person I meet at work. Clubbing & going to bars it's so easy to talk to & deal with people especially when I drink (usually Hennessy) as if I'm not at the bar or dancing, I look for the girls who look similar to me or the hottest black guy I can find.

23.05.2023 15:54:11
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23.05.2023 17:48:42
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most people shit on me for being quiet and that kind of ruins the vibe for me... it feels so condescending!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :((((((((((((((((((((((((((( i feel like a freak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

23.05.2023 17:48:42
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23.05.2023 18:02:17
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Sure as hell! It became more and more difficult with age...probably because I became more sad and miserable with each year.

23.05.2023 18:02:17
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19.06.2023 04:28:41
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yes! but also i really want friends and then i start talking to someone and i just cnat keep up i feel so bad that i cant always hang when they want to because i just dont have the energy or dont text them enough and its just not fair to devoid someone of the love and care they deserve 

19.06.2023 04:28:41
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20.06.2023 15:39:02
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yup I find it really hard to approach people, on my previous course it took the whole year to make some basic convo with this one girl n we never became friends lmao.. however online I make friends very easily so that kinda sucks

20.06.2023 15:39:02
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20.06.2023 17:31:20
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yeah, i struggle a bit in social situations and i'm extremely awkward. i do have some friends from school but i don't share any similar interests with them, hoping i make some new ones in college.

20.06.2023 17:31:20

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21.06.2023 00:22:44
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Kind of. It might be the way I look, since I came from a bigger city and the people in a small town dress WAY different. But I honestly don't feel like changing. Might also be my autism why I struggle lmao. I stopped giving a fuck about "friends".

21.06.2023 00:22:44

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