Anyone else struggle with making friends in real life?

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03.01.2023 16:00:29
awaluvz

I do not struggle since I do not care about it, no matter what everyone says.
I don't do deep bonds with people because I do not want to get hurt and I'm fine by myself, so when person leaves - I do not care, I really don't.
(people are very annoyed by the fact that I do not let them get close to me, once they leave - they feel the urge to insult me, hoping it will hurt me and I never get why they are doing it)


03.01.2023 16:00:29

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26.01.2023 04:42:50
brittanyy

all my life ppl have seen me as someone who easily makes friends when it's really something i struggle with

26.01.2023 04:42:50
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28.01.2023 08:14:04
Xamantha

my biggest problem is keeping in touch with people and eventually we just lose contact :(

28.01.2023 08:14:04
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28.01.2023 13:53:59
porcelaindoll223

yes, i'm not even an introvert or shi like that, i just find it hard to come up to people and ask them to hang out, so all friends i have they always came up to me first idk why is that but it's stressing mee lol

28.01.2023 13:53:59
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28.01.2023 20:32:18
Zephy

i make friends easily but i keep them hardly

28.01.2023 20:32:18
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30.01.2023 16:41:50
jupiterxmars

im absolutely awful at conversation i feel like, two messages in and i start freaking out bcus im out of things to say. i do try to put myself out there and be social with others, but 99% of the time all i have to contribute is "haha, yea" to conversations. i just dont understand how to talk about anything that is not me or my current hyperfixations, or something unnecessarily intense for normal conversation. its just weird. ive wondered if i have some other mental things going on making it hard for me to make friends, or if i'm just socially stunted from my controlling dad and years of crippling social anxiety. if i have a partner they always end up being the only person i can talk to without stressing myself out and i dont know why talking to them would be any different than talking to anyone else?

30.01.2023 16:41:50

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19.05.2023 09:03:21
HotSexyDaddy

i’m really good at flattery and getting people to like me, but my college is 7 miles away from where i live so it is kinda awkward having to take the train to meet with people all the time so that’s why i haven’t kept much. 

19.05.2023 09:03:21
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20.05.2023 19:23:05
kommunistheks

yeah it absolutely sucks, I have a really hard time making contact with people and I also suck at keeping relationships

20.05.2023 19:23:05
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21.05.2023 07:54:08
thynios

for sure! its hard once you leave school and i'm too much of an introvert to go meet other people with hobbies :'(

21.05.2023 07:54:08
  
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22.05.2023 19:00:48
dickbug

yes! i have the craziest social anxiety. but also i am very picky with my friendships because I want to make sure that the people i am friends with have similar morals/values as mine. 

22.05.2023 19:00:48
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