Players with ADHD

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03.12.2022 19:23:12
filibabie

YES YES YES TO THE CANT STOP THING!!!! i have MULTIPLE times had weekends or days off where i would be like "im gonna go for a walk today!" or whatever, but then i start picking my skin and am physically unable to stop until its 'perfect' which can take hours, and then boom i just wasted a day on picking my skin!! and when that happens i usually feel terrible after, which is less satisfying, but that's more due to the fact that i 'wasted a day' and not so much due to the fact that i just ripped a whole layer of my skin off lmao??
i brought a liquid hobby glue or whatever u call it so that i can try putting a layer on my palm and picking that instead – its not a perfect solution cause it takes time to dry and i funnily enough have a lil bit of an issue w patience lmao, but its a nice way to keep my hands busy when i have the patience for it!!

03.12.2022 19:23:12
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03.12.2022 21:35:05
valentinesux

there are also stim toys u can get for picking! i totally get the feeling bad for wasting time thing, sometimes i get too into it before bed and end up going to bed like 2 hrs late :,)

03.12.2022 21:35:05
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04.12.2022 09:43:11
MissElle

Hi! I'm Elle, I'm 20 (she/her). I was diagnosed with ASD at 17 and ADHD at 18, and went through about 5 years of therapy and a few misdiagnoses before diagnosis. I'm in college, and the years of therapy plus taking my meds helps heaps with staying focused and motivated! 
I also found it very interesting how I was bullied for years and years (all throughout high school) directly because of my autistic/ADHD traits, but when I finally got diagnosed and the word spread, the bullies in question had one of two reactions: "There's no way she's autistic" or *suddenly starts being far nicer to me*.
The second reaction was more insulting to me if I'm honest, as if it was okay before but now that I was "officially autistic/ADHD" it was unacceptable to be nasty about it.

Reading the posts just above.. I can relate a bit - by far the worst part of my ADHD/ASD is the compulsive nail biting. First of all it bloody hurts, second of all it looks horrible!! but when I get anxious it's like. the white of my nail needs to GO and then once I've got rid of that white part I realise how bad it looks and try to fix it.. by biting more. Like girl (my brain) what on earth do you think you're achieving?

04.12.2022 09:43:11



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04.12.2022 11:39:43
filibabie

Hi Elle!!!
The bullying thing is sososo terrible, i'm rlly sorry to hear that! it's tragic and funny to think about how we're literally floating on a big rock in space, we have about 80 years on this planet and we can literally choose to do whatever we want with the time we have, yet there's no room or space in society for people who fall a little bit outside the norm, and some of those who do fall into the norm, choose to spend their time on this earth trying to bring others down for being different?? not to get all pseudo-philosophical but that shit is like so tragic when u think about it???

before i started studying, i used to wear acrylic nails all the time – ofc bc i thought it looked so pretty, but an added benefit i didnt think abt was that it actually made it impossible for me to pick at my skin or bite my nails, so if u have the funds and dont have a reason not to get them, i recommend you try it out!! it might make a difference for u<333
also irrelevant but: "girl (my brain)" is gonna be my no. 1 favourite thing to say ever in my life i think

04.12.2022 11:39:43
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04.12.2022 11:57:01
MissElle

I just recently got acrylics for that exact reason!!! I got them off 2 weeks ago after having them on for a few months. I had to get them because the biting had become so bad that I literally needed them to be able to let them grow back out (ironic, since they tend to be pretty damaging to your nails). After getting them off and seeing they've grown in nicely I'm finding that if I keep them painted I'm less likely to bite, even without the acrylics on, which I'm pleased with! Hopefully I can keep it up.

Loving the pseudo-philosophical mood! I completely agree. It's also, again, just (to borrow your phrase) so tragic and funny that all those traits that are "outside the norm" suddenly disappear to them once the diagnosis is revealed. Like "oh you can't be, I would never have thought that"... you were making fun of me for stimming and getting stressed about plans two weeks ago!!!

04.12.2022 11:57:01



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04.12.2022 13:09:31
filibabie

hey good to hear its working!!! i have about two months of school where i wont be in contact w patients, so im thinking about getting them done now, cause its really bad atm!!

and yea its pretty unbelievable, like oh so u were fine w bullying before u found out it was a diagnosis? like im sorry but either ur a bully or ur not, suddenly deciding that the behaviour they poked fun of is ok is like so two faced and gross. obvs the bullying is gross to begin with, but its just adding another dimension when they can just so quickly flip a switch and be totally 'cool' w u after?????? rubs me the wrong way lol

04.12.2022 13:09:31
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04.12.2022 18:17:29
chewtoy

Hiii I’m Elvie and I’m not diagnosed bc the wait list in the U.K. is horrendous but I’m rlly sure I have ADHD! I’m also diagnosed autistic :)

04.12.2022 18:17:29
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04.12.2022 22:51:22
filibabie

im sorry to hear!! are u on a waitlist??? waitlists here in denmark are extremely long as well, but my dad has so many contacts he managed to get me an appointment w a psychiatrist right away, otherwise i would've probably have to wait around a year to see one ://

04.12.2022 22:51:22
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05.12.2022 00:17:27
chewtoy

Yeah it’s 2 years minimum at the place in my area but idk if it gets transferred over, if not I’m gonna have to wait at least another 2 years when I move lol

05.12.2022 00:17:27
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27.12.2022 15:59:02
53Xm0m

MEEEEEE
they did a brain SPECT, which means they looked at the chemicals in my brain and told me my ADHD is big

27.12.2022 15:59:02

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