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Melpomene
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Antitheocra
21.01.2024 17:33:24
Melpomene

Hmmh. There's a weird, unfounded, antiquated value given to the idea of marriage alone there, I think. The way I see it, a marriage is the culmination and symbolic representation of a relationship. Cheating suggests the relationship behind the marriage is already flawed. If you're not respecting your partner enough to be honest with them or to understand and respect their boundaries (like monogamy for instance), - well then you've proven that your partner, your relationship, and your marriage do not really have much value to you. What's the point of staying in a marriage if one person is actively devaluing and mocking the relationship it's built on?

Obviously, I'm generalizing here and I'm sure there's circumstances and instances where working through cheating is completely feasible, but yeah. That's my two cents as an unmarried young person.   

Hope everyone will have a good week next week!

21.01.2024 17:33:24

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Pollyx
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Antitheocra
21.01.2024 17:40:32
Pollyx

I hope you and your bf can resolve this! my perspective (married) is that this is the exact kind of issue you should talk about before marriage. I'm sorry you had a disagreement, that sounds frustrating. in the long run, things like this are the vital kind of information you would need to agree on if some time in the future you are thinking about taking your relationship to the next step. that's why many people recommend pre-marriage counseling to make sure you're on the right page. I didn't do it (my spouse and I have always been super open with each other and talked all this stuff through on our own) but I know others who did. important conversations to have!!

in any case I would say opinions on monogamy (and the importance of maintaining that, and consequences for not respecting that decision), children vs no children, and career plans (does one of you expect the other to stay home?) are some of the most important things to figure out before you even consider getting engaged. so the conversation is frustrating, I agree, and i'm sorry it happened, but it's good to know it's something you would need to revisit in the future before you take any next steps :) <3 i wish you the best!!

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alexa pro
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Atheista
21.01.2024 18:46:28
alexa pro

good afternoon yall!!! its finally warming up here but not quite above freezing yet :')
anyone else watch jacksfilms on youtube?? been binge watching him lately and he's been one of my favs since middle school lollll

hope you all have a great day!! xx

21.01.2024 18:46:28
ediblegoats
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Antitheocra
21.01.2024 19:13:17
ediblegoats

omg yes!! i’ve been a fan of jacksfilms for a very long time, still watch him a load! :)

21.01.2024 19:13:17
xoxoHelloKtty
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Freethinkerland
21.01.2024 20:25:39
xoxoHelloKtty

Pollyx wrote:
in any case I would say opinions on monogamy (and the importance of maintaining that, and consequences for not respecting that decision), children vs no children, and career plans (does one of you expect the other to stay home?) are some of the most important things to figure out before you even consider getting engaged. so the conversation is frustrating, I agree, and i'm sorry it happened, but it's good to know it's something you would need to revisit in the future before you take any next steps.
Thank you to everyone who has replied and given best wishes!!! 
Whenever we have disagreements, he doesn't like revisiting them, but we are young as of now, and hopefully, in the future, he will want to talk about some things again.
We both have had experience with a parent cheating. I think our experiences influenced our opinions. But I just don't want him to expect somebody to stay and not divorce yk.

And Melpomene, you and I share the same brain about this! I basically said what you said.

21.01.2024 20:25:39

Katrynah
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Antitheocra
21.01.2024 21:14:43
Katrynah

oh man, im definitely a man hater because i wouldve immediately broken up with him LOL. in my experience when men dont see cheating as a deal breaker, they intend to cheat in the future and usually trap their partner with kids. if he's unwilling to revisit such a serious topic, my advice is to dump him  ♥  have as much fun as you can though first before that!!

21.01.2024 21:14:43
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KatieBoutique
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Atheista
21.01.2024 22:28:17
KatieBoutique

London Ximbolandarians and Miss Bimbo we’re following that storm over your bulwarks and we are sending reinforcements!  Bundle up!  

21.01.2024 22:28:17

xoxoHelloKtty
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Freethinkerland
21.01.2024 22:48:23
xoxoHelloKtty

Katrynah wrote:
oh man, im definitely a man hater because i wouldve immediately broken up with him LOL.
It's funny how I always see guys say girls are all the same and unloyal all the time, too. Let alone the bottom g epidemic that happened and now the trad wife stuff... 

Why do men?

Otherwise, He is a great guy who just needs the right guidance. might take some time, but I will trust the process.

And I hope everyone is being cozy if they have cold weather. was 28 F this morning. Texas changes weather every other day :(

21.01.2024 22:48:23

Iowa
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Reasonopia
22.01.2024 00:22:14
Iowa

if the issue is staying together “for the kids” i guarantee children living in a house with two parents who can’t stand each other bc they should’ve gotten divorced years ago are way emotionally worse off than children whose parents separated, even with how rough divorce can be on kids. 

22.01.2024 00:22:14
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xoxoHelloKtty
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Freethinkerland
22.01.2024 00:28:38
xoxoHelloKtty

I am a product of parents staying together. I have severe anxiety due to arguments and witnessing my dad fighting my mom and sister (his stepdaughter). My mom the next day, would act lovey-dovey with him. Me and my sister both suffered mentally from all this. 

I definitely need extensive counseling lol. That is why I have my stance though. Never would want to put my kids through that. 

22.01.2024 00:28:38

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