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lovie444
Level 49
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 89877
Reputation: 40112
Posts: 358
Secville
16.01.2023 10:47:44
lovie444

SUPER CUTE I LOVE THE PANTS!!! sorry 2 hear ur dad was sucking >:(

16.01.2023 10:47:44
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filibabie
Level 46
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 75294
Reputation: 23249
Posts: 828
Secville
16.01.2023 11:08:22
filibabie

he do be doing that a lot :p

16.01.2023 11:08:22
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Blecky89
Level 235
Status: State Minister
Sex Appeal: 10907176
Reputation: 779724
Posts: 26333
Freethinkerland
16.01.2023 12:34:55
Blecky89

Don't want to be the asshole but part of being a parent is to ruin your kids day. I believe  he wants the best for you. Sadly not always what we as parents think is the best matches what actually is the best for kid.

16.01.2023 12:34:55
    
filibabie
Level 46
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 75294
Reputation: 23249
Posts: 828
Secville
16.01.2023 15:25:41
filibabie

you could never be an asshole miss blecky :p i know what u mean! and he really tries. problem is, he suffers from narcissistic personality disorder and alexithymia (inability to understand emotions, basically), so he ends up hurting the people he love a lot. and its technically not his fault, but that doesnt mean that the rest of us have to just shut up and take it – so a v difficult situation indeed! :p

16.01.2023 15:25:41
on wednesdays, thursdays, fridays, saturdays, sundays, mondays and tuesdays, we wear pink x <3
lovie444
Level 49
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 89877
Reputation: 40112
Posts: 358
Secville
17.01.2023 00:49:52
lovie444

i agree with fili blecky hehe ^^ i dont think thats asshole behavior <3 

17.01.2023 00:49:52
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valentinesux
Level 52
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 107022
Reputation: 36447
Posts: 543
Secville
17.01.2023 01:12:27
valentinesux

ohhh no fili i'm really sorry 2 hear that, i have bpd and i know firsthand that a) pds are absolutely awful and soul-crushing 4 the ppl dealing with them, and b) regardless of that sometimes ppl w pds (ESPECIALLY npd) can hurt other people in a way no one else can. especially the fact that he's ur dad, i hope everything is ok and ur able to remove urself from the situation when ur able. i agree that you shouldn't have 2 just shut up and take it bc even tho it isn't his fault that he has npd, and it may cause him a lot of pain, that isn't an excuse for hurting other ppl, especially his daughter.

unfortunately there's a lot of misinfo online abt pds so ppl w them are demonized constantly, and told that they're BY DEFAULT and abuser or bad person, but i promise it is possible to have a pd and be a kind, caring person w good relationships. he should do better!!!! and he should definitely b in therapy + probably on meds if he isn't already...im not a dr just know a LOT abt pds and cluster b (bpd, npd, hpd, aspd) all can suffer from pretty big mood swings and deep depression so like meds have helped me a lot. they're some of the hardest disorders to treat bc they all stem from pretty big childhood trauma defense mechanisms, that basically take over your behaviors. so he probably was made to feel worthless as a child and that's why his brain gives him that narcissistic ego, to protect itself. ONLY with treatment can u begin to unravel that tangled mess.

but anyways my biggest point is still that as his daughter its definitely not ur responsibility to fix him, it's HIS responsibility 2 get help and in the meantime u have every right 2 remove urself from his life in any way that u feel u need. u don't owe ur parents shit just 4 birthing u especially if any sort of abuse occurred. it's important 2 acknowledge that ppl w pds are absolutely not inherently evil, but they do need a lot more help than the average person in controlling their behaviors n making sure they don't hurt others, n if they are refusing treatment then no progress at all can b made. anyways sorry for the huge rant pds in particular are a special interest of mine n i always try 2 add my 2 cents as someone with one so i hope that was helpful at all <3 

17.01.2023 01:12:27
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filibabie
Level 46
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 75294
Reputation: 23249
Posts: 828
Secville
17.01.2023 01:24:56
filibabie

val u are such an amazing, genuine, kind and well reflected person, every time i have had somethin less than great to report youre ALWAYS there and idek if youre aware of it but i am and it is sososo appreciated<3

i know that ppl w pds are by no means evil – my dad isnt either, he doesnt know better. but it IS very exhausting to constantly have to defend yourself from his manipulation tactics, especially when all i want to do is give him all the love i have, while knowing that i have to be cautious and protect myself. does that make any sense at all??
he is currently in therapy, and while it has helped, theres still a long way to go – there are so many things about himself that he doesnt even know are problematic yet, even though he's discovered many already. he uncovered a lot of past traumas in his sessions, and ur absolutely right, all this stems from a childhood with parents who werent good at showing him love.

im not on speaking terms w him currently and havent been for about a month, he keeps messaging me and calling me, but i can feel that im just not ready yet. im not trying to punish him, im trying to protect myself. and i hope maybe, if i wait long enough, he will be forced to look at some of the things that make him...less pleasant of a person :p
never apologise for ur huge rants, they're sososo appreciated always <3

17.01.2023 01:24:56
on wednesdays, thursdays, fridays, saturdays, sundays, mondays and tuesdays, we wear pink x <3
Honey Beee
Level 212
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 7612283
Reputation: 135496
Posts: 2706
Secville
17.01.2023 02:54:44
Honey Beee

I really wish we could play music in our profiles like on tumblr or myspace

17.01.2023 02:54:44

valentinesux
Level 52
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 107022
Reputation: 36447
Posts: 543
Secville
17.01.2023 17:35:56
valentinesux

fili that makes complete sense and i do think cutting off communication w him is ur best path rn. it sounds like ur coming at it from a place of love and i admire ur perspective on it, it sounds like ur more mature than him lol which should honestly make u feel a lil bit better <3 i hope he can work out his shit and get to a place where u feel comfortable having a relationship w him, but until then i agree w ur approach for sure. im glad i can be helpful that makes me so happy!!!! and im always here if u need 2 vent <3

honeybee i agree sm i wish there was a music player and also i wish u could make a background for ur abt section, like i wanna put a tiled gif so bad
what songs would yall put on ur profile id probs do like marina and the diamonds bc i will NEVER leave my marina era + shes bimbocore

17.01.2023 17:35:56
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 (xmas gift from the lovely @filibabie <3)

  (made by @Bimbl6 <3)





Honey Beee
Level 212
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 7612283
Reputation: 135496
Posts: 2706
Secville
17.01.2023 19:08:09
Honey Beee

love early marina, she would definitely be in my playlist ! it's just so fun, adds so much personality to your own page!!

17.01.2023 19:08:09

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