^^ I'm pan and i have attraction to all without preference, tho i mostly go unlabled bc of all the arguing and annoyance of people trying to lable me and tell me how to feel, even withing our own community.
LGBTQ+ rambles
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AuntieLice wrote:
Couldn't agree more! A lesbian has always been a female homosexual. This new push to get lesbians to be attracted to someone with a penis is the modern day conversion therapy and women who identify as another gender can surely find a new label other than lesbian!I'm just confused, why do people care if a woman likes someone who isn't a man and identifies as a lesbian? Why does genitalia matter and why do people think trans people are trying to take over the community? They've always been a part of it and it's sad seeing people try to exclude us. I identify as nonbinary, i'm female which shouldn't matter, and I don't like men. Does this make me straight because I don't identify as a lady? Also I'm not trying to come off as aggressive, just sad because I don't think people realize how this can really alienate us when it's not my choice I never felt like a girl growing up.
yazabelle wrote:
^^ I'm pan and i have attraction to all without preference, tho i mostly go unlabled bc of all the arguing and annoyance of people trying to lable me and tell me how to feel, even withing our own community.you're valid!!! <3
Electoral College wrote:
I decided to internalize this (including my attraction towards women / refused to acknowledge it.) As a kid I'd even imagine scenarios where I was a guy dating or marrying a girl because I didn't wanna process that I don't have to be a boy to do all these things. Then in middle school I was like, wait feminine fashion is actually cool as hell, I don't think I'm a guy anymore (my "straight ally" phase LMAO). Fast forward to realizing I love women, thinking I'm bi, then a butch lesbian, and finally I was like holy hell I relate so much to the nonbinary label. Now I'm chilling and really enjoying my femininity for myself. (I was going to say for women, which is okay too, but in the end I want to learn to express me for me first.) It is really hard considering I used to force myself to like men for the sake of my mom without really processing it, so now I'm used to focusing on how men see me, specifically when wearing revealing or "slutty" stuff. I mostly dress masculine though for comfort reasons and also because I just don't really care, I'm not a guy or a girl or an anything so I'll wear whatever. I do like experimenting with my feminine fashion and want to donate some clothes so I can buy a wardrobe I like even more.
new topic: what r yalls experiences with gender presentation? for me personally ive found a lot of joy in reclaiming aspects of femininity and masculinity for my own special genderAs a kid I fully believed I was a trans guy because I was so much more interested in men's fashion. I was considered a "tomboy" since I liked soccer and toys for boys, and my mom would ask me if I think I'm a boy in a shameful tone.
I decided to internalize this (including my attraction towards women / refused to acknowledge it.) As a kid I'd even imagine scenarios where I was a guy dating or marrying a girl because I didn't wanna process that I don't have to be a boy to do all these things. Then in middle school I was like, wait feminine fashion is actually cool as hell, I don't think I'm a guy anymore (my "straight ally" phase LMAO). Fast forward to realizing I love women, thinking I'm bi, then a butch lesbian, and finally I was like holy hell I relate so much to the nonbinary label. Now I'm chilling and really enjoying my femininity for myself. (I was going to say for women, which is okay too, but in the end I want to learn to express me for me first.) It is really hard considering I used to force myself to like men for the sake of my mom without really processing it, so now I'm used to focusing on how men see me, specifically when wearing revealing or "slutty" stuff. I mostly dress masculine though for comfort reasons and also because I just don't really care, I'm not a guy or a girl or an anything so I'll wear whatever. I do like experimenting with my feminine fashion and want to donate some clothes so I can buy a wardrobe I like even more.
Does anyone here have any plans for pride month? I went to a parade and a festival last week. This is such a beautiful community that deserves to be celebrated.
Baddest Bitch Alive
Toronto here, we have a street for lgbt bars and stuff like that I really wanna go clubbing to
i am so tierd of being trans in the US. why does everyone want me dead ughhh. why cant i strut around being my lil transmasc self doing my transmasc things on this lil transmasc day.
^^ very true :( it's a disheartening and saddening thing to be trans in an country where people want to destroy you for being yourself. BUT, i know that we can all get through it and come out of the other side happier and healthier and more confident in ourselves than before. we will not let their hate get to us!!
ScoutScreams wrote:
i am so tierd of being trans in the US. why does everyone want me dead ughhh. why cant i strut around being my lil transmasc self doing my transmasc things on this lil transmasc day.Very valid, but you deserve the self respect others can't offer you because they're too stubborn to learn or haven't learned enough yet. TRANSMASC RIGHTS
i think i might be lesbian but i'm scared to label myself bc i don't want someone hollaring at me smth like "UUHH ACTUALLY THE DEFINITION OF A LESBIAN IS-" and go on to tell me how to feel. Like i know the "scientific"(?) definition of what being lesbian means, but sexuality (in my experience) is so fluid. Like- I like girls but idk if i like guys the same way, but i also like enby people, and i am an enby person but i present fem and am good with any pronouns SO IDK! ill just stay unlabled/pan for now ig :)
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