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Freethinkerland
29.04.2021 10:47:08
CinnamonSugar

Oh, I am sorry to hear that.  
Does that means you're not able to participate in group therapy or other treatment activities? I hope they are able to find accommodations.

29.04.2021 10:47:08
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
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Atheista
29.04.2021 12:56:53
THAT bitch

my grandma recently found out she has skin cancer and she's going into surgery today to get it removed. she caught it early and she really should be fine, but i'm still so torn up about it. we're super close, and she's always been able to help me through her spirituality and unconditional acceptance. i love her so much, and i'm just super frantic rn. before she went in, she texted that "you are my heart" and that she would see me soon. i just broke down.

29.04.2021 12:56:53
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Atheista
29.04.2021 13:45:45
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CinnamonSugar wrote:
Oh, I am sorry to hear that.  
Does that means you're not able to participate in group therapy or other treatment activities? I hope they are able to find accommodations.
i was given an ipad to attend virtually, but because this is an OCD/anxiety center, a large part of it is ERP or exposure and response prevention work. which i can’t really do from the bedroom. i’m just hoping the test comes back negative and i can return to it lol

sending love to you THAT bitch, i hope the surgery goes well <3

29.04.2021 13:45:45
your reluctant optimist 
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Atheista
30.04.2021 00:35:47
LizardKiwi

I am very worried. Apparently when my mom went to the doctor a few weeks ago they found a lump and she has a diagnostic mammogram tomorrow. She wasn't going to tell me unless something bad happened but she accidentally said something and I asked why she had an appointment tomorrow and she ended up telling me. I'm so worried because my moms side of the family has a history of breast cancer. I think farther back people have had it but my grandma had it. My mom doesn't have the gene that makes it more likely but I'm still very afraid. I can't lose my mom. I can't. I know I'm working myself up and it could be nothing but I can't help it. I can't stop crying because I always fear the worst. I just don't know why this has to happen to me. It feels unfair. Why must life be so unfair

30.04.2021 00:35:47
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Freethinkerland
30.04.2021 02:06:09
CinnamonSugar

Oh, Ezra...
You're right that life is unfair. 
That's a thought I struggle with, too. 
The uncertainty of the situation probably doesn't help. I  can't stand not knowing something.
Hopefully, you feel better after the appointment when you have more information. 

30.04.2021 02:06:09
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
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Atheista
30.04.2021 02:20:40
LizardKiwi

I hope so too. I'm trying to be more optimistic but it's really hard. I know it could be nothing but it also could be something. I really hope it's nothing.

Edit: I just wanted to update and let people know that my mom is okay. She has a polyp from too much caffeine and nothing bad is going on. All is okay and I can breathe again :)

30.04.2021 02:20:40
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Atheista
01.05.2021 01:58:05
THAT bitch

update: my grandmother's surgery to remove her skin cancer went well, she's in good spirits. i'm still a little shaken up, but she's okay. 

01.05.2021 01:58:05
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Freethinkerland
01.05.2021 20:39:38
CinnamonSugar

I had a few days of feeling decent & then stuff happens that triggers me back to depression. 

Edit: treatment can feel hopeless at times because it doesn't change that life hurts. It doesn't prevent the bad stuff from happening. 

01.05.2021 20:39:38
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
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Atheista
02.05.2021 21:27:36
sadaroti

im really trying rn. im starting to take care of myself now, i started a skin care routine and started taking care of my hair, cleaned my depression room, this is just the start but its progress

02.05.2021 21:27:36
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Freethinkerland
03.05.2021 00:34:07
CinnamonSugar

I feel exhausted physically & emotionally. I think working rotating shifts is part of the problem physically. I.e. sometimes I work the opening shift, sometimes the closing shift.

Anyway, I was also thinking about this feelings chart that I was introduced to when I was a teenager in therapy. Learning to recognize feelings has been the biggest takeaway from therapy.  So, I hope this chart is helpful to others:


03.05.2021 00:34:07
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
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