Players with ADHD

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27.01.2021 20:39:56
PlushKlavier

strad wrote:
PlushKlavier wrote:
strad wrote:
what is getting diagnosed like/how do you bring it up to your docter? i relate to a lot of symptoms but im to scared to bring it up in any conversation incase i sound dumb or am wrong lol
For me I just asked to be tested and got a test I had to fill in, it was no problem at all, I basically just went "by the way I also suspect I have ADD, can I get tested for this?" and that was that
thats fair. but i have this fear of being wrong and embarasing myself in front of my parents and doctor idk
If you recognize having a lot of the symptoms then there's nothing wrong with asking for a test!
Even if it turns out you don't have it, you might discover you have something else that overlaps with ADHD/ADD like autism, or even if you don't have anything there's no shame in getting tested, your doctor won't think you're stupid or anything for asking for a test that then turns out to be negative, you'll at least make your symptoms discussable and be able to ask for advice on how to deal with them

27.01.2021 20:39:56

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27.01.2021 20:42:51
strad

PlushKlavier wrote:
strad wrote:
PlushKlavier wrote:
strad wrote:
what is getting diagnosed like/how do you bring it up to your docter? i relate to a lot of symptoms but im to scared to bring it up in any conversation incase i sound dumb or am wrong lol
For me I just asked to be tested and got a test I had to fill in, it was no problem at all, I basically just went "by the way I also suspect I have ADD, can I get tested for this?" and that was that
thats fair. but i have this fear of being wrong and embarasing myself in front of my parents and doctor idk
If you recognize having a lot of the symptoms then there's nothing wrong with asking for a test!
Even if it turns out you don't have it, you might discover you have something else that overlaps with ADHD/ADD like autism, or even if you don't have anything there's no shame in getting tested, your doctor won't think you're stupid or anything for asking for a test that then turns out to be negative, you'll at least make your symptoms discussable and be able to ask for advice on how to deal with them
this was a nice sentiment, thank you!

27.01.2021 20:42:51
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27.01.2021 20:48:07
CinnamonSugar

PlushKlavier wrote:
If you recognize having a lot of the symptoms then there's nothing wrong with asking for a test!
Even if it turns out you don't have it, you might discover you have something else that overlaps with ADHD/ADD like autism, or even if you don't have anything there's no shame in getting tested, your doctor won't think you're stupid or anything for asking for a test that then turns out to be negative, you'll at least make your symptoms discussable and be able to ask for advice on how to deal with them
It might sound scary that Plush said "autism" but that's not the only diagnosis with common symptoms. A lot of the symptoms, like restlessness & difficulty concentrating, are also related to depression & anxiety. If you have symptoms like skin picking or pulling out your hair, these are also their own disorders (dermatomania & trichotillomania).

27.01.2021 20:48:07
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27.01.2021 21:44:46
LillyAnn

strad wrote:
PlushKlavier wrote:
strad wrote:
what is getting diagnosed like/how do you bring it up to your docter? i relate to a lot of symptoms but im to scared to bring it up in any conversation incase i sound dumb or am wrong lol
For me I just asked to be tested and got a test I had to fill in, it was no problem at all, I basically just went "by the way I also suspect I have ADD, can I get tested for this?" and that was that
thats fair. but i have this fear of being wrong and embarasing myself in front of my parents and doctor idk
Caring about yourself isn't embarrassing. Showing awareness isn't embarrassing either. Ignorance is. If it's going to solve your puzzle go for it, of course only if you are peace with yourself doing it. If you are wrong it won't hurt anyone, it can only show that you are working on yourself and that matters.

27.01.2021 21:44:46

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28.01.2021 06:35:40
cryinqcloudz

PlushKlavier wrote:
cryinqcloudz wrote:
i don't have adhd but i have autism
We have a thread for autistic players too! :)
https://bimbo.land/forum/any-autistic-bimbos/t4216

THX


28.01.2021 06:35:40
             
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28.01.2021 19:42:19
Shanobyl

I personally don’t have an official dx because I’m on a stimulant for fatigue and such, but I’m p sure I have it bc family members do and I had the symptoms girls did as kids and I still do now. Also getting diagnosed as an adult can be a pain, especially if you’re a woman or otherwise femme presenting since ADHD generally presents differently in us. Also we are generally forced to mask that or autism if when we were girls so the “had symptoms even as a child” diagnostic criteria is pretty BS to me. 

28.01.2021 19:42:19

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28.01.2021 20:16:21
miesha

Shanobyl wrote:
I personally don’t have an official dx because I’m on a stimulant for fatigue and such, but I’m p sure I have it bc family members do and I had the symptoms girls did as kids and I still do now. Also getting diagnosed as an adult can be a pain, especially if you’re a woman or otherwise femme presenting since ADHD generally presents differently in us. Also we are generally forced to mask that or autism if when we were girls so the “had symptoms even as a child” diagnostic criteria is pretty BS to me. 
I can somewhat relate! This is why i’m extremely pro self-dx. The system is incredibly sexist and capitalist and outdated, so its fine to self-dx 

28.01.2021 20:16:21
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28.01.2021 21:38:59
gabou777

THAT bitch wrote:
does anyone have any tips to help w overstimulation? ive been getting super overwhelmed lately and i have no idea how to cope. ive been picking at the sides of my fingernails, but its damaged my fingers lmao. everything is either too loud or too quiet and idk what to do
Fidgets really help me, try findng a spining ring! It could help stop your nail picking :)


28.01.2021 21:38:59
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29.01.2021 10:43:10
ballsniffer22

ive been waiting to get dxed with adhd (maybe other stuff too) for like 4 months now is this normal holy shit
its impacting my school life and just general being so much i hate it </33 last year my teachers gave me so much shit for being late all the time im so desperate 4 a diagnosis faurkkf

29.01.2021 10:43:10
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02.02.2021 01:31:51
CinnamonSugar

Some days I seem better able to focus than others. 
This weekend, I was able to sit & read for a while. I mean, I  was still fidgety & actually changed chairs but I was able to read & absorb the info. Then, today, I could not focus on any activity at all.

I have a doctor's appointment in a week. We talked last month bug he didn't want to change my meds. Maybe thi sdcc time he will.

02.02.2021 01:31:51
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