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24.12.2020 13:35:45
CinnamonSugar

1. Thank you Sarahxbunny, Miesha, and PlushKlavier for answering my question.

2. Peeslurper69, residential facilities might have more privacy than inpatient hospitals (i.e. doors on the bathroom). My understanding is that residential facilities are for people who are more stable (not suicidal or homicidal), so they may not have the same restrictions. But definitely something to ask, if you decide to call somewhere for more info! You could also research if any residential facilities take people off campus, which might help your agoraphobia. I read a memoir from the 60s, I think, where the author was in a residential for over a year and they took her to an ice cream parlor nearby 1/week. It's probably not happening with the pandemic, but I still think it's worth looking into.

3. Hi GlitterGuts. Yeah, college can be tough. You're welcome to vent here or ask for advice. 

24.12.2020 13:35:45
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
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25.12.2020 03:34:24
miesha

i'm so done with this site man. everyday i log in here just to end up either angry, sad, or both at the same time. the only reason why i bother staying is because i've made friends with some of the sweetest people i've ever met. everyday when i see them online/commenting on my profile i get happy and momentarily forget how ableist this site is and how the owner only cares about money at the end of the day. and then something reminds me again and i just. man. i remmeber when  i first came here i felt so warm and welcomed but now everyday i feel like only new problems are gonna come up and i dont know why i bother. my real life is a mess and i use the internet as an escape, which i know isnt a good idea but i literally cannot get any true mental help irl because 1) no one believes me and 2) i live in a crappy ass town that barely has any educated professionals that really want to help me. hell, i've felt more comfortable on fucking EVERSKIES than this site. everskies is literally riddled with people i can't stand and yet i feel comforted interacting with people there  because they're actually understanding. i want to give out my social medias to people i want to keep up with and delete my account here but it wouldnt be the same. i know they wouldnt reach out to me ever again because thats the beauty of this site--its easy to reach out to friends on here while on other sites it isnt. im just so fucking frustrated with how things are. by the way i dont really need advice or anything i just wanted to let this out so please dont worry about replying, i mean unless you want to but i just wanted to vent. 

25.12.2020 03:34:24
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25.12.2020 03:54:13
Lil' George Bubblegum

I feel like I've been living in an all time high recently and I'm scared I'm going to fall into an abyss I'll have a hard time leaving soon once it reaches the peak :-)

25.12.2020 03:54:13
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25.12.2020 03:56:34
miesha

Lil' George Bubblegum wrote:
I feel like I've been living in an all time high recently and I'm scared I'm going to fall into an abyss I'll have a hard time leaving soon once it reaches the peak :-)
felt this one.. but if you need someone we're here for you! this thread is incredibly supportive

25.12.2020 03:56:34
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Freethinkerland
26.12.2020 16:58:31
CinnamonSugar

My mum thinks she can yell at me every day an then just yell "sorry" as I walk away. Yeah, that'll make it all better...

26.12.2020 16:58:31
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
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26.12.2020 17:15:04
gabou777

i feel traped and lonely ever since i moved out of my parents house...

26.12.2020 17:15:04
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Freethinkerland
28.12.2020 16:28:53
CinnamonSugar

Crying 

28.12.2020 16:28:53
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28.12.2020 17:51:10
tenth doctor

im incredibly incredibly stressed, upset, and worried. one of my closest friends is being targeted and attacked by terfs and i'm incredibly worried for her health and safety. i really really hope she stays safe she means a lot to me

28.12.2020 17:51:10
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28.12.2020 22:43:57
miesha

CinnamonSugar wrote:
Crying 
I hope you're alright Cinnamon :( I saw your other post as well. I'm sorry mothers are like that, mine's the same too. But I think you're very strong--things may feel hopeless right now but that doesn't mean you cannot overcome it, and I really do believe in you! 

28.12.2020 22:43:57
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28.12.2020 22:54:08
miesha

miesha wrote:
i'm so done with this site man. everyday i log in here just to end up either angry, sad, or both at the same time. the only reason why i bother staying is because i've made friends with some of the sweetest people i've ever met...
regarding this post from a few days ago... i haven't been on here since i posted it. my boyfriend has been doing my tasks for me on this account, which i'm very thankful for. i've been on the site i mentioned in this post a lot more and managed to make more friends because i'm somewhat of a social butterfly. they're very sweet and understanding and i've been feeling happier. i'm not sure if i want to leave this site entirely yet... i'm still thinking about it. i have some sweet friends here that i'd miss terribly. i don't know. for now i'll let my boyfriend do stuff for me on this account and respond to comments on my own. 

on the other hand, i got a package today from a small online business i buy stuff from. they sell stuff imported from japan, it's pretty cool. i was happy to see it! one of the things i requested were two randomized cat figurines from them and i was very delighted to see they ended up looking like my cat even though they were randomized. made me very happy :D 

28.12.2020 22:54:08
19, she/he pronouns ONLY. Barely on the site anymore so don’t bother. Please don’t interact with me if we aren’t friends, it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and anxious. 

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